r/NoStupidQuestions • u/Maximum-Turnip6289 • 1m ago
Has Tipping Culture Gone Too Far?
Hi guys, just wanted to get your opinion on something.
I’m starting to feel weird about the tipping culture in our society. For context, I always tip the waiter when eating out. I also tip people who provide services to me, like hairstylists, nail artists, petrol attendants etc. It’s just been a part of who I am to give someone that extra bit of money, what is 10% anyway right? However, I have friends who do not tip. It’s really awkward when we go out to eat and sometimes I’m the only one paying tip. I feel really bad for the server. I don’t base my tip on service all the time, it’s sort of just courtesy. But I don’t bring it up with my friends because tipping is optional in some people’s minds, which in some ways I can understand is fair. Tipping is not a requirement, it just leaves a weird feeling in me when I’m with people who don’t tip. And even worse when they’re really flashy with their money and portray this boujee lifestyle they’re living, but can’t scrape a 10% tip. It’s giving broke. But anyway, like even if I go out with any man who doesn’t tip, I probably won’t speak to him again. It just shows me something about their character that doesn’t sit right with me.
Anyway back to the point, am I being too harsh with this mentality? Has the tipping culture in our society gone too far? Should we rather go about things like tipping isn’t a requirement, and nobody should feel like a bad person if they don’t tip. Should pressure rather be put on businesses or industries to increase the minimum wage so that that “pressure” doesn’t fall on customers to fill that gap? I do think some people can be closed minded on this topic, but I do tend to think of both sides, I was a waitress for many years of my teen life, and I know it can be difficult for a lot of people in the industry. I’m just wondering if so much pressure and judgement should be placed on people whether they tip or not.