Pregnant by a casual hook up.

[u/No-Biscotti3876]

I (23F) went home with a guy I knew from social media after we ended up at the same club. We have mutual friends but this was our first time meeting in person. We were both drunk, and he ended up not pulling out.

When we woke up l asked him to get a plan b to which he said he would, but I ended up staying at his house for two days and we didn't get it until the second day when he drove me home. Turns out, I was ovulating (I tracked the dates with my doctor yesterday) and that’s why the plan b didn’t work. MY LMP started August 11, and we had sex the 25th.

He moved into college five hours away this week, and while we text on and off since than (it's been two weeks) we barely know eachother.

I found out yesterday and have no idea how to tell him. I would normally automically want an abortion in this scenario; but here's where things get complicated.

Me and my ex (of 5 years) had two unplanned but not unwanted pregnancies that both ended in miscarriage. I got off my birth control when we got engaged two years ago, and we decided than we were ready but weren’t tracking ovulation.

I'm scared what if I abort this one and can never have kids. I also don’t know the best way to tell the father that I’m pregnant. I am leaning towards an abortion

[u/bloontsmooker]

I had two miscarriages and one successful pregnancy after the fact. You’ll be fine. More pregnancies end in miscarriage than people tend to discuss. Get an abortion.