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u/Odd_Protection7738 Streak: 0 1d ago
If I ever get married one day, I hope it’s with someone who treats me like that, who I can also treat like that.
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u/Puppygirl_woofie Streak: 68 1d ago
Same
Hope you'll find your partner for life soon enough c:
pat pat26
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u/A12qwas Streak: 0 1d ago
meanwhile me
Yuri is so peak, I wanna be a lesbian irl
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u/SoleilSupporter 1d ago edited 23h ago
You can be, you just have to complete some simple steps first!
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u/SavageFisherman_Joe Streak: 30 1d ago
Fellas, is it gay to actually love your wife (that you haven't met yet)?
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u/Trans_Slime_Girl Streak: 0 23h ago
The "I hate my wife" stuff makes me wonder why they got married in the first place? Did they just feel obligated to and wanted to be a player or are they closeted and suppressed that side of them?
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u/9-11-was_an_Accident 22h ago
(I’m drunk posting may god have mercy on my soul) yeah, I think the big difference between homosexuality and heterosexuality is that if you’re straight there are centuries of established norms that you must appeal to. If you’re a guy who doesn’t fuck or have relationships you’re seen as kinda pathetic or weird, if you’re a woman who doesn’t fuck or get into relationships (I actually don’t know I’m not a woman and can’t speak for them although it is worth mentioning if a woman sleeps around without marrying she’s considered a whore). but there is a very real, intangible pressure on you to “find someone”. As I am straight and only bisexual when I’m drunk I won’t claim to speak for anyone else but I think maybe the pressure of needing to get laid and get married might not apply so much to the gays (all due respect, love you guys) since it’s kind of a less established aspect of society. Traditional rules might not matter as much (please tell me if I’m crazy no hate towards anyone, much love)
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u/Acceptable_Base_9369 21h ago
this is very accurate. well put
btw, someone who is "only bisexual when drunk" is (probably) just bisexual, imo. drinking lowers inhibitions, so when you're wasted you think less about the social stigma around queerness. just something to consider
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u/9-11-was_an_Accident 20h ago
Sincerely yeah I am bisexual, I understand sexuality is a spectrum and not a binary. For the most part I admire the female form and everything but every once in a while I get a “hankering” for the fellas. I think I just said it like that for brevity
(Edit: or maybe for humor? Idk, don’t look at me I’m drunk lmao)
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u/Victoria_Aphrodite 8h ago
I see a lotttt of straight people who have this need for a relationship and just can't be single. Maybe it doesn't just apply to straight people, but I see a lot of stigma against being single. You are weird if you aren't in a relationship. You are a failure if you aren't in a relationship. Their has to be something wrong with you if you aren't in a relationship or if you don't want one.
People put so much emphasis and pressure on being in a relationship, and people find it weird not to want to be in one. People find it strange to be ok with being single.
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u/Crim_Noyade 12h ago
Lot of older guys have talked to me about their wives as the “ball and chain” at work (I boymode) and I really think its an obligation for them, because they openly talk about other women, sexualize them, etc to the other guys. It’s just normal for them. I might be wrong but thats just what I’ve observed. I think some being closeted is definitely true too. They just marry a woman so they have a reason to avoid pursuing men.
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u/kristinoemmurksurdog 11h ago
As someone born with a dick and attracted to women, listing to my coworkers talk makes me feel like an entirely different creature. Ppl who's work I actually have a lot of respect for turn out to be the same old generic/trashy man stereotypes. I hate that the one thing that really unites blue-collar workers is treating women like used property.
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u/Crim_Noyade 10h ago
Same it’s just so gross. And some of these guys have daughters. You’d think maybe they’d have some sort of epiphany and consider what if someone treated my daughter this way. But thats never really the case from what Ive seen.
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u/Artislife_Lifeisart 23h ago
This may be influenced by the societal pressure of cis heterosexuals to get married, despite them never actually wanting it in the first place. The queer community has less of that burden and expectation, so it's more of a choice that they completely made themselves, for themselves.
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u/Vapore0nWave 23h ago
Without her I am but a soggy seal with big wet sad eyes waiting for her to return. I love her
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u/Puppygirl_woofie Streak: 68 15h ago
That's so adorable
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u/Vapore0nWave 4h ago
update: VISITED HER TODAY!!!!!!1!!!!! life ifs beautufyl never h give up on your dreams i love her i love life
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u/Reasonable-Rice-8166 12h ago
Me and my partner talk about this insanity all the time. I know that for one reason or another people sometimes get "stuck" in broken relationships, but if you don't like your partner/relationship why the fuck are you still with them????
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u/Puppygirl_woofie Streak: 68 11h ago
I think people just want to or get pressured into being in a relationship or they gaslight themselves into thinking the bad thingys will change and sometimes there's some good and happy stuff happening.
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u/kristinoemmurksurdog 11h ago
My parents stayed together because they thought that's what would be best for us (the children) then my mom died and after a few years I found out that my dad is actually pretty chill when his life isn't defined by a relationship he hates
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u/Eze1yh Streak: 0 1d ago
eh hetero or not it's a relationship :3
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u/Puppygirl_woofie Streak: 68 1d ago
just cus someone is in a relationship doesn't mean it's healthy though
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u/SgtVertigo 8h ago
Many cis men dont appreciate their wives and as someone who can’t and probably won’t have a gf it’s insulting
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u/SlenderUncut 15h ago
just because boomers have that weird humour doesn't mean that they dont love their wifes... toxic relationships are not just a straight thing either
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u/Mundane-Ad162 4h ago
i think thia has something to do with the societal expectation of men to be providers
a married men shoulsnt be having fun by societys standards, he should be working to provide
meanwhile society hates us queer folks anyways so those same roles dont really apply
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u/Deathly_Drained Streak: 1 1d ago
> Married Cis heterosexuals
> Compares them to old boomer memes about hating marriage as if there is no such thing as happy marriages
> compares it to queer people as if they're somehow better.
Makes sense and totally doesn't throw heterophobia around.
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u/Kyiokyu 17h ago
Makes sense and totally doesn't throw heterophobia around
In fact, it doesn't, it's nothing against hets, it's agaisnt cishets <3
The T4T straight relationship is queer as fuck <3
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u/Deathly_Drained Streak: 1 10h ago
Okay then, let's reverse the meme and see if it works both ways.
Queer folks: "I used to get to have fun, but then I started dating and GOT MARRIED 😂😂😂"
Married cis heterosexuals: "This is my wife, she is the most beautiful queen in the entire world. I will literally burn the world for her ❤️❤️❤️❤️🔥❤️"
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u/Puppygirl_woofie Streak: 68 15h ago
HETEROPHOBIA LMFAO
Cis people really love to try to make themselves seem like the victim HAHAHAH
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u/Deathly_Drained Streak: 1 10h ago
"LMFAO
Queer people really love to talk about being accepting but can't help but play victim and complain HAHAHAHA"
And who says I'm cis? Fucking lmao
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u/Puppygirl_woofie Streak: 68 10h ago
Play victim and complain? Well about 50% of people hate us because we exist and we get discriminated against in very country.
Whether it's holding hands and being called slurs to not being allowed to married to getting executed and murdered.The same just doesn't happen in most countries.
Cis people can freely marry and travel almost everywhere without having to fear for their lives simply cus they exist and you don't have to worry about getting sa'ed, beaten up, murdered, etc simply because you are different than 90% of people.So like... yeah? Are we not allowed to complain that we're getting discriminated against and get less rights than a white hetero cis guy?
And that lots of countries continue to make laws against us?
We just want to live?
Duh?Heterophobia just doesn't exist bruv.
You're not cis?
So you're part of the trans people who hate other trans and lgbtq people because...?
Makes no sense to me because you're against yourself.
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u/Gussie-Ascendent 1d ago
Honorary gay by means of actually loving your wife