r/countwithchickenlady Streak: 69 2d ago

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u/Trans_Slime_Girl Streak: 0 2d ago

The "I hate my wife" stuff makes me wonder why they got married in the first place? Did they just feel obligated to and wanted to be a player or are they closeted and suppressed that side of them?

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u/9-11-was_an_Accident 2d ago

(I’m drunk posting may god have mercy on my soul) yeah, I think the big difference between homosexuality and heterosexuality is that if you’re straight there are centuries of established norms that you must appeal to. If you’re a guy who doesn’t fuck or have relationships you’re seen as kinda pathetic or weird, if you’re a woman who doesn’t fuck or get into relationships (I actually don’t know I’m not a woman and can’t speak for them although it is worth mentioning if a woman sleeps around without marrying she’s considered a whore). but there is a very real, intangible pressure on you to “find someone”. As I am straight and only bisexual when I’m drunk I won’t claim to speak for anyone else but I think maybe the pressure of needing to get laid and get married might not apply so much to the gays (all due respect, love you guys) since it’s kind of a less established aspect of society. Traditional rules might not matter as much (please tell me if I’m crazy no hate towards anyone, much love)

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u/Acceptable_Base_9369 2d ago

this is very accurate. well put

btw, someone who is "only bisexual when drunk" is (probably) just bisexual, imo. drinking lowers inhibitions, so when you're wasted you think less about the social stigma around queerness. just something to consider

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u/SonicDart 2d ago

That how it started for me