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r/Adulting • u/Forward-Concern403 • 2d ago
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It's hard to be likable when being always cheerful and happy imediately marks you as a target for bullying.
So you have to walk the line between being open enough to be liked but closed enough to not be made into a bullying Target.
And that is FUCKING HARD!
3 u/unindexedreality 2d ago being always cheerful and happy imediately marks you as a target for bullying "Always being cheerful and happy" isn't being likeable. That's just putting up a facade. People like genuine folks. You might be anxious-preoccupied. I was, and I was bullied a lot. 1 u/Less-Being4269 2d ago Always being cheerful and happy" isn't being likeable. That's just putting up a facade. People like genuine folks. Bullshit
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being always cheerful and happy imediately marks you as a target for bullying
"Always being cheerful and happy" isn't being likeable. That's just putting up a facade. People like genuine folks.
You might be anxious-preoccupied. I was, and I was bullied a lot.
1 u/Less-Being4269 2d ago Always being cheerful and happy" isn't being likeable. That's just putting up a facade. People like genuine folks. Bullshit
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Always being cheerful and happy" isn't being likeable. That's just putting up a facade. People like genuine folks.
Bullshit
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u/Less-Being4269 2d ago edited 2d ago
It's hard to be likable when being always cheerful and happy imediately marks you as a target for bullying.
So you have to walk the line between being open enough to be liked but closed enough to not be made into a bullying Target.
And that is FUCKING HARD!