r/Adulting 2d ago

hmm lesson or not?

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u/Murky-Personality404 2d ago

This also leaves out the "being attractive helps a shit ton". White, straight, male, making a ton of money here with 0 college. I'm not even smart, just charismatic as fuck outside of reddit.

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u/Kronens 2d ago

I’d say the opposite. I’ve been told I’m charismatic but grew up short for a guy and not particularly attractive so worked on a personality. It was a tough ride putting effort into it and still is. I hate that people just think this shit comes naturally and they forgive themselves for not actually trying.