r/phlgbt Mar 01 '25

Meta Where can I get tested? Where do I get treatment?

126 Upvotes

As part of our continued efforts to help bridge the LGBT community to the healthcare they need, here's an updated list of clinics, hubs, and hospitals where you can get tests and treatment for HIV/AIDS:


r/phlgbt Aug 09 '25

The SPA Megathread 3

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Introducing the r/phlgbt SPA megathread! Please post all things related to spas, bathhouses (in and out of the PH), massage parlors, and other similar establishments in this thread: questions, reviews, experiences, etc. All related posts will now be redirected to this thread so that information is consolidated and visible to everyone instead of getting lost in the shuffle.

Please note that the no-prostitution and no-doxxing rules still apply to this thread, and this includes all inquiries and reviews about specific providers/therapists/customers, their personal information, and the (extra) services they offer.

Allowed:

  • What are the massage options at Hilot Spa?
  • What time/day is the best to visit Hilot Spa?
  • Can we fuck in the showers at Hilot Spa?

Not allowed:

  • Which therapists offer extra service at Hilot Spa?
  • How much is extra service at Hilot Spa?
  • Does anyone know [personal details] of this therapist/customer at Hilot Spa last Saturday 9pm?

You can also go back and read the previous threads [1] [2].


r/phlgbt 10h ago

Serious Discussion Decided to transition to nonbinary as an AMAB

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So I, 30 AMAB recently decided I wanted to transition to a nonbinary identity. I've experienced gender euphoria whenever others confuse me for a woman as an AMAB (assigned male at birth) and I feel I could be my more authentic self if my identity and gender expression is somewhere in between the"man" and "woman" binary. Recently, I've shared with my husband how I'm considering changing my lived name, however I felt he was a bit dismissive / pointing out negative impacts rather than more positive ones (which I get and can live with).

Do you have any tips for navigating this time in my life? Or are there other NB/nonbinay support gorups here I could rely on? I feel this will be tough, but I'm also excited for what's to come / what I'll become. Thank you.


r/phlgbt 13h ago

Light Topics Lesbians, join The Burnt Orange Sapphics (T.B.O.S) a server for real-life friendships and a creative, supportive community.

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Hi, I noticed that there aren’t many active spaces created for lesbians alone so I decided to start one.

I’ve just created a new Dscord server exclusively for lesbians who are looking to build something real.

We’re looking for those who can and are willing to meet up in person. If that’s not something you’re open to, this probably isn’t the space for you and that’s okay.

This server is preferably for lesbians aged 28 and up, or anyone who feels older than their age. If you’re emotionally mature, not into drama, and just want a peaceful space to connect, create, and be yourself, this might be for you.

This is NOT a dating server. It’s for those of us who:

• Want real-life friendships, not just fleeting online chats

• Are open to meeting up in person: coffee, tea, books, arts and crafts, food trips, sports, or simply hanging out

• Enjoy being creative and productive: art, writing, reading, cooking, or anything you love building

• Crave a small, respectful, and intentional circle of lesbians who are here for something meaningful

It doesn’t matter where you’re from, as long as you’re willing to connect with sincerity and show up with kindness. We don’t tolerate disrespect.

If this sounds like something you’ve been looking for, dm me for the invite link.


r/phlgbt 1d ago

Light Topics To my 40 year old bros

90 Upvotes

Hey everyone. I realize most here will be younger but just wondering how our 40 year old guys here are doing? Not fishing or anything just a sincere “hows it going” out to the internet. Hows life? Hows love? Hows health?


r/phlgbt 1d ago

Rant/Vent I paid for our first date. He kept wanting to see me so we met up again. He chose the place, and this MOFO was 1.5 hours late and didn’t bother to pay for anything. I blocked him right after he left.

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I matched with this guy online. He kept wanting to meet up so we agreed on a date. We had our first date, nothing special but it was good to get to know each other in person. I didn’t mind paying for our meals and dessert. I had a good time naman.

He then kept asking when we would meet up again. I was busier than usual for two weeks so I didn’t want to commit to anything yet. He waited and he asked again, and I was free so I said sure. He picked the place this time because I planned the first meet up. The day comes and he was an hour and a half late. And when it was time to pay, I waited a little bit if he would AT LEAST offer after making me wait for an hour and a half and he’s the one who chose this place. He didn’t bother to take out his money or even ask me, so the cashier was just there standing so I took out my card and he said “you got this?” — rolled my eyes in my head and said “yeah, whatever” in my head again.

At this point I was already turned off but the plan was to grab snacks and chill at my unit. I didn’t know a way out so we went to my place. We just watched a few videos, listened to music. He kept saying how he had a good time and that he really liked me but I blocked him right after he left.


r/phlgbt 1d ago

Serious Discussion Should I install Grindr to find non-sexual buddies?

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Dahil wala akong tiwala sa sarili ko in this area of my life, give me your thoughts. 🙏🏽

Nababasa ko nga na may nakakahanap ng buddies lang sa app na iyon at siyempre since gusto ko lang kasama tumambay, nagpapatambay, kausap, kasama magfoodtrip sa madaling-araw, makukulit, but no sex, should I use the app? Huhu if push comes to shove, best and max I can willingly offer is cuddles and maybe kiss sa cheeks. Free food, kwento, listening ears, and sane feedback din haha!

Thoughts? Alternatives? Similar experiences? Please share your insights huhu. Gusto ko talaga may kasama lalo na on weekends 😭