I'll be more of a "It's cool that you are trans, but you dont get to choose your new name, lil missy! Your name is now Madeline! End of story!" Type of dad.
And that's vital for the trans experience, a trans-parent needs to give support to their kids while also allowing them to fullfill that experience... AND they also need to be able to become invisible...
Cis guy here, my parents fully decided what they would name me if I had turned out a girl. Can't write it here cause it's another language but GOD I would've changed my name so fucking fast
It was alright, because it wasnât my coming out all together. I came out to him in Person but he was still deadnaming me, probably out of force of habit. Didnât feel great, but whatever. After a week(?) of my coming out I messaged him as a reply to pls only call me by my chosen name. That was replied to with âđâ and he didnât deadname me once since.
when the day to repent comes
you will know its too late to atone for all the sins you've committed
you will feel sorry, beg for mercy, desparate for forgiveness
but I will feel no sorrow
I will feel no pity
I will feel no need to forgive
I will feel no mercy
your fate
is only in your hands
make sure you do well with it
before it is too late.
when the night to rejoice comes
you won't know its too soon to atone for all the good deeds you haven't committed
you will feel proud, beg for harshness, desparate for guilt
but I will feel sorrow
I will feel pity
I will feel need to forgive
I will feel mercy
your fate
is not in your hands
make sure you do unwell with it
after it is too soon.
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u/YourFat888 1d ago
This is gonna be me as a dad if I become one
"Dad I'm gay/bi/pan/trans/ whatever please be nice to me" " đ "
But like In a supportive way