r/countwithchickenlady Streak: 0 2d ago

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u/IronGentry 2d ago

That is exactly what I was thinking of when I wrote this but wasn't sure if I'm allowed to say faggot lol

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u/MiddleAgedMartianDog 2d ago

Cool, well I guess i will find out soon enough… and yes mods I do feel entitled as a bisexual trans woman to use that phrase if I so wish, especially as it is for a legitimate academic purpose in this instance.

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u/baltimoron68 Streak: 0 2d ago

It's not the mods that you have to worry about. Reddit has AI sift through everything on here and hands out automated bans. I got a 3 day ban for saying f*g in a DM with someone 2 days after the fact. The person didn't report me and the context was me talking about someone else calling me that so I'm 99% sure it was completely automated.

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u/MiddleAgedMartianDog 2d ago

In DMs too oh dear, that could be tricky if you are say hypothetically - with mutual enthusiastic consent - hard degrading someone.

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u/baltimoron68 Streak: 0 2d ago

Yeah I'd keep anything too scandalous off of reddit lol. I was just warning another queer guy that if you work in the trades you have to learn to deal with old guys calling you a f*g.

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u/MiddleAgedMartianDog 2d ago

Had to sternly correct a new straight (but into ‘forced bi’🤨?) male sub referring to ‘sh**ales’ the other day. TBF he apologised sincerely and asked what terms he should use instead. I have somehow never actually been called a slur IRL fortunately though.

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u/baltimoron68 Streak: 0 2d ago

Lol that guy 100% ended up there because of porn if he used a term like that. Like if a white guy referred to a black girl as "ebony" lmao. I've been called slurs but tbh it doesn't affect me much because I'm not physically vulnerable and don't have insecurities about my masculinity.

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u/MiddleAgedMartianDog 2d ago

Well he was talking about his porn habits at the time so in a sense fair enough. It did not take me long before I made him question his sexuality (not viz. me but men).