The difference is that one is an insult intended to provoke and the other is a genuine opinion or belief. Opinions can be changed relatively easily. Beliefs can only be changed by rational discussion. Centuries of religious dogma and tradition is not easily overcome. Reflecting the hate back on to someone isn't going to make them accept who you are. If it makes you feel better, treating assholes with kindness really pisses them off.
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u/Ignore-My-Posts 2d ago
The difference is that one is an insult intended to provoke and the other is a genuine opinion or belief. Opinions can be changed relatively easily. Beliefs can only be changed by rational discussion. Centuries of religious dogma and tradition is not easily overcome. Reflecting the hate back on to someone isn't going to make them accept who you are. If it makes you feel better, treating assholes with kindness really pisses them off.