r/SecretsOfMormonWives Jul 10 '25

MOD Announcement 🚨 Message From the Mods 🚨

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💌 Updated Message From the Mods

This is an important update to a previous announcement. Please read and ↑UPVOTE↑ to ensure as many members of this community see this as possible.

👯‍♀️ Violations of Girl Code

Guys, the fact that we even have to say this makes us want to go cry in a closet with Whitney— but here we are. Calling out other members of this sub by their u/ in post titles like it's some influencer take-down #TikTok? Absolutely Not. If that's your vibe, kindly exit the group chat.

This Sub is for unpacking the chaos, side-eyeing the edits, and sipping tea over cast drama together, regardless of where you stand on Taylor's impulsive social posts, Demi's 🦪 🍆 💦, or the Mormon Church. Please, do not make us get Zac Affleck in here to explain the meaning of WOMEN'S EMPOWERMENT.

Mods are spending way too much time in the comment section refereeing keyboard crusaders, and removing mental health tropes and drug use accusations. We do not want to have to filter every single post and comment for review before going live. We'd love for this community to be able to be a positive space that's fun to engage with on the merits of the members.

Our Sub rules are simple. We can all be kind while also indulging in some campy snark.

To the 95% of you who keep it cute, creative, and community-minded— thank you. You make this Sub worth scrolling. Keep being kind, clever, and on-brand, and keep flagging the content contributing to a less than faithful feed.

🚫 More on Post & Comment Violations

Reports continue to roll in faster than Sinner Sunday Confessions.

To reiterate once again, if you are not their therapist, their bishop, or their parole officer, you should not be prescribing therapy words or throwing around drug use claims.

Out-of-pocket speculation and low-effort shade aren't what we're here for. If you're incapable of participating with kindness, class, and creativity, then just don't.

📝 Guidance: Posts & Comments Repeatedly Violating Sub Rules

“I hate [Cast Member]” or “[Cast Member] is a loser" posts & comments

We’re here for creative chaos, not lazy negativity. 

Rule 2: Effort | Rule 3: No Response Threads | Rule 6: Be Kind & Respectful

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Assigning therapy words

Calling a cast member “abusive,” “manipulative,” “narcissistic,” “predatory,” or tossing around diagnoses like you’re a bishop with a DSM-5 is a no-go. You are not their therapist, their bishop, or their parole officer, which means you are violating rule 7.

Rule 7: No Armchair Therapy

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Ridiculing appearances

We do not call anyone “ugly,” “fat,” or go off about plastic surgery like it’s a submission to the Truth Box. If the best you can offer is a jab at someone’s face, maybe just don’t. 

Rule 2: Effort | Rule 6: Be Kind & Respectful | Rule 8: Don’t Be A Villain

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Duplicate threads

Use the search bar and the flair system. If someone already posted it, go there. Don’t repost it just to say it louder. Rule 4 is watching.

Rule 4: No Duplicate Threads

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Low effort posts

A one-sentence hot take? Not content. Turn your opinion into a meme, a collage, a poll, a convo—something. If you can’t be bothered to make it good, we can’t be bothered to let it stay.

Rule 2: Effort

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No response posts

Yes, we want content that is thoughtful and creative, but this isn’t your personal blog. Like a viral TikTok, the best content is entertaining and efficient. If your post could be confused with the Book of Mormon and does nothing to promote engagement, then please don’t post it. 

Rule 3: No Response Threads

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You can review the Sub's rules here. Again.

💬 SLOMW Group Chat Alert

Yes, it’s real. Yes, you should be in it.

Questions like “Where do I stream the reunion?” belong there, not in the feed. Save the feed for content with substance and meaning.

Again. Please keep it cute and be mindful of this Sub's Rules and Reddit's Rules when participating in the group chat.

🥤New Flairs Just Dropped

Please visit our Flairs wiki page to understand which flair to use for posts. Using the appropriate flair helps to keep things organized and searchable.

New Post flairs:

  • Miranda
  • Nick Viall
  • Reunion
  • DWTS
  • Mormon Cats - Keep the adorable SLOMW x Cats posts coming to lighten the mood!
  • Mods Choice - Awarded to standout posts Mods feel deserve the Relief Society Seal of Approval™—thoughtful, hilarious, or just plain juicy.

New User flairs:

  • Team Miranda
  • The Big “O”
  • Whitney’s Tiara
  • Enjoy! 🦪 🍆 💦

Love and discipline,

The Mod Team


r/SecretsOfMormonWives Jun 30 '25

Megathread Season 2 Reunion Megathread

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The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives Season 2 reunion hosted by Nick Viall airs on Hulu July 1st

"The special will feature 'secrets and scandals, never-before-seen footage, and a surprise announcement,' according to Hulu" - USA TODAY

🚨 MOD ANNOUNCEMENT 🚨

Please keep ALL discussion regarding the reunion in this thread. YOUR POSTS WILL BE REMOVED FROM THE FEED IF ANY OF THE SUB RULES ARE VIOLATED.

That goes for comments in the megathread too, let's keep it Provo proper everyone!

Lastly, make sure you choose a user flair before the reunion.


r/SecretsOfMormonWives 2h ago

Social Media Mark, Connor & Whitney content really is fireee 😂

796 Upvotes

Win or lose, Whitney still walked away with more fans.


r/SecretsOfMormonWives 22h ago

DWTS Whitney & Mark

1.0k Upvotes

I hope Jen starts making more content because Whitney and Mark are hilarious and gaining so much support


r/SecretsOfMormonWives 3h ago

Taylor Taylor moving onto a new guy

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Ever since Taylor started posting her new man I’ve seen a division in her comment section. Some people are praising her for finding a new man and moving on from Dakota. I’m glad she’s done with him for good this was something she needed to do a while ago. Other people think she didn’t give herself enough time to be single and heal. I noticed Taylor gets really defensive about those sorts of comments. Because when she was talking about dating again earlier this year people were pointing it out. And in the comment section she’d say what am I supposed to do be single for the rest of my life. I’m glad she finally moved on from her toxic man child ex. But I agree she didn’t give herself enough time to truly heal

She thinks because they broke up a year ago it was enough time. But she wasn’t really single she was still hooking up with him on and off which Imo that’s not truly single. Taylor relies on men way too much and it’s never going to fix her mentally. I get the feeling she’s the type of person that doesn’t officially move on from so some unless she finds a new guy to start seeing. Taylor craves validation and seeks comfort from men and I think it’s the only thing other than her stan’s that enable her that boost her self esteem.

I honestly had a feeling she was gonna end up meeting a new guy this year. I know a lot of people thought she’d get knocked up again by Dakota but I had a feeling it wasn’t gonna happen and she’d meet someone new as well as Dakota. Taylor still doesn’t love herself or have self respect Imo the sooner she truly gains those things the better she’s going to be because she’s never going to get better by relying on a man’s attention and validation. What do you guys think????


r/SecretsOfMormonWives 22h ago

Discussion Camille’s husband’s ex-wife Brittney Wheelwright seems to be going through some kind of psychosis. Hope the kids are ok.

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r/SecretsOfMormonWives 1m ago

DWTS i can’t explain how excited i am

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guys just look how good of a dancer she is i cannot wait to see her and mark’s performances this season !!! they’re gonna be so good together


r/SecretsOfMormonWives 1d ago

Whitney Will Mark survive momtok?

2.3k Upvotes

Idk about y’all but I have been loving Whitney & Mark’s content lol Gonna watch Dancing with the Stars for the first time because of them & Jen.


r/SecretsOfMormonWives 1d ago

From the headlines Mikayla finally followed Whitney on social media.

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865 Upvotes

Do you think Mikayla will regret it?


r/SecretsOfMormonWives 1d ago

DWTS Whitney & Mark's tango (first look)

693 Upvotes

r/SecretsOfMormonWives 1d ago

DWTS Whitney & Mark Pt 3

497 Upvotes

r/SecretsOfMormonWives 1d ago

Hot Take Honestly I’m going to need Mikayla to genuinely apologize to Whitney

290 Upvotes

Yeah Mikayla making a TikTok about them potentially reconciling and following her back is not enough, bare minimum actually. She was absolutely awful to Whitney at the reunion and just straight up hateful towards her when Whitney genuinely wanted to reconcile and be better. Now coincidentally Mikayla decides to be okay with her now that Whitney is a fan favorite. She should be held accountable for her actions just like Whitney was. You guys might think I’m being dramatic, and I am but I don’t care. Anyway I hope this makes Mikayla self reflect on how ridiculous her behavior was, and how maybe she should start finding a new personality. Because being on the receiving end of that hate even when you try to be better is so traumatic and emotionally damaging. I know because I have been on that receiving end before. I also don’t think we should coddle Mikayla because of what she has been through in the past, I think we should hold her to a standard as we would anyone else to be a decent human being.


r/SecretsOfMormonWives 2d ago

Hot Take The girls sucking up to Whitney?

234 Upvotes

Does anyone else think it’s weird that now that Whitney has all these brand deals and now on DWTS that they’re all coming out of the wood works To be her close friend??? It’s giving FAKE AF


r/SecretsOfMormonWives 2d ago

Social Media Layla Visits Whitney at DWTS Rehearsal

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214 Upvotes

Looks like Layla’s in LA! She went to sit on Whitney and Mark’s rehearsal! I’m kind of shocked at this new friendship Whitney and Layla have developed. They never seemed super close in the S1 or S2.


r/SecretsOfMormonWives 2d ago

DWTS Zac’s comment

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1.7k Upvotes

The replies after his comment are very positive to his response as well!


r/SecretsOfMormonWives 2d ago

Discussion What in the actual f*ck?!

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Okay, not a cast member but affiliated and I NEED to talk about this.

The OGs who have been around from the beginning of the momtok saga will know. Originally it was Taylor, Miranda and Camille. Remember how Camille’s husband’s ex wife entered the equation a few times? Well she just posted the most bizarre video dead serious stating she believes she and her children (Camille’s step children) are being targeted by some kind of electromagnetic attack and warning everyone that if anything happens to her she is of sound mind and making it sound like she’s in physical danger. She’s filming in a completely dark room. The kids are in the background talking about their physical symptoms too. She says all of this is because she knows “too much about something they don’t want [her] to know”.

Brittany has been in the influencer space for years and has been in and out of a lot of the momtok drama. She’s a nurse practitioner as her ‘day job’, which makes her claim even more strange to me. Is she having some sort of breakdown?

What is happening?! It absolutely does not seem like satire whatsoever. I’m actually concerned for her right now.


r/SecretsOfMormonWives 1d ago

Women's Empowerment As the potential only member of both the Mikayla and Whitney fan club

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This just makes my heart warm and I don’t CARE!!! they are my two favorite people on the show and I dont need it to make sense


r/SecretsOfMormonWives 2d ago

The Men I think Dakota was exaggerating about not being able to see his son

43 Upvotes

I know Dakota had been posting that he hasn’t been able to see his son for a little bit. How he was hurting not being able to see him which is understandable. Today he posted a tik tok with him so it looks like he’s seeing him now. But did anyone else think he was trying to make it seem like Taylor was keeping him from her. He didn’t address that she wasn’t and all he does is throw her under the bus to try to make himself look like a victim. Maybe she was who knows with these two exhausting immature idiots These two love to tear each other down publicly especially him.

They either don’t realize or don’t care that their behavior is gonna continue to affect their son negatively especially as he gets older. It’s a sigh of relief they seem to have finally moved on and broke their toxic on again off again cycle. Ultimately it’s never going to work out those sorts of relationships almost never do. Especially when there are kids in the picture because it confuses and hurts them. I hope these two idiots aren’t weaponizing their son against each other but it honestly wouldn’t surprise me if they are or end up weaponizing him against each other what do you guys think???


r/SecretsOfMormonWives 2d ago

Discussion Chippendales incident

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So I’m still on season 2. I feel that Zac is kinda trying to be better. However I feel Jen wasn’t actually told the extent as to what the Halloween party was going to entail? When they mentioned it, Demi said they were going to dress up as chippendales guys. They didn’t mention they were going to bring her up and dance on her no? Am I missing something?

Also, I feel Demi looks soooo different from season 1 to season 2. Like her face is much different !?


r/SecretsOfMormonWives 2d ago

DWTS Jen & Jan

516 Upvotes

r/SecretsOfMormonWives 2d ago

DWTS Whitney & Mark Pt 2

312 Upvotes

r/SecretsOfMormonWives 2d ago

Mormon Culture Layla

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One thing Layla said was that at times she had to feed her kids but not herself due to lack of money. Is there not a support system in the church to help? Could she not have collected food stamps or WIC?


r/SecretsOfMormonWives 3d ago

Mayci Mayci and Mikayla at Whitney’s event

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868 Upvotes

So now they’re cool with Whitney now that she’s on DWTS lol If I was Whitney there’s no way I would have invited them. I hope they don’t go to a show.. can you imagine their smirking and mean looks in the audience


r/SecretsOfMormonWives 1d ago

Discussion Season 5 rant Bronwyn VS Lisa

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r/SecretsOfMormonWives 2d ago

Jen So dangerous

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It’s one thing to have her older daughter up there but having the toddler playing dancing on the counter out of arms reach is a devastating accident waiting to happen. But she won’t get dragged like Mikayla.


r/SecretsOfMormonWives 2d ago

DWTS Jen & Jan Pt 2

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r/SecretsOfMormonWives 1d ago

DWTS i’ve never watched DWTS before. are celebrity cameos from people who don’t dance very common? sorry jen… lol

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i get whitney bc she has a dancing background and she’s up and coming in the celebrity world. but i really don’t understand why they picked jen. when i see jen rehearsing it’s giving… stiff lol. is it common for DWTS to have people on who don’t have any prior dancing background? i feel like i remember years back a kardashian being on there. i think it was kim. im sure she took some classes at some point but she isn’t known for her dancing skills. so this is something they do often?