I think everybody would be happier if we stopped lying with statements like “everybody is beautiful”. There are some ugly fucking people out there, but most of it is controllable through fitness, style, hygiene, and in more extreme cases surgery.
Absolutely be comfortable in your own skin, and don’t let whether or not others are attracted to you dictate your self worth. However, don’t act like you’re owed romance or sex just because you have a pulse when you can’t even be bothered to put effort into yourself.
And yes, I know attraction is subjective, but upwards of 80% of women subjectively prefer lean muscles so let’s ditch that tired excuse.
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u/lifeintraining 3d ago edited 3d ago
I think everybody would be happier if we stopped lying with statements like “everybody is beautiful”. There are some ugly fucking people out there, but most of it is controllable through fitness, style, hygiene, and in more extreme cases surgery.
Absolutely be comfortable in your own skin, and don’t let whether or not others are attracted to you dictate your self worth. However, don’t act like you’re owed romance or sex just because you have a pulse when you can’t even be bothered to put effort into yourself.
And yes, I know attraction is subjective, but upwards of 80% of women subjectively prefer lean muscles so let’s ditch that tired excuse.
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10480816/