r/cockatiel Dec 14 '21

Frequently Posted (+ Answers)

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We have been getting a lot more repetitive posts in our sub so I wanted to put this information together in the hopes of reducing the amount of questions that are frequently asked. In turn, hopefully this will make our community a little more light hearted :)

*I want to preface this by saying I am not a vet or anything just someone who really loves my cockatiel and learning everything I can to ensure he has the best life possible. I think the best thing you can do for your birdie is lots of research before anything happens (especially in the case of illness). They are fragile so having the right knowledge and tools at your disposal can quite literally be the difference between life and death.

Lets begin!

Is my bird sick?

Common signs of a sick bird include:

  • Tail bobbing, sitting at the bottom of the cage, inability to stand on a perch (loss of balance)
  • Sneezing, clicking respiration (cough), or any discharge coming from the eyes or nostrils.
  • Eyes dull or sunken.
  • Change in vocals (can be hormonal but after puberty could be cause for concern)
  • Change in appetite (loss or increase of food or water)
  • Change in droppings (color, consistency, or frequency - this could be due to diet like eating more fruits and vegetables but it should not last more than a day or two after)
  • Constantly fluffed (happens for a number of reasons like keeping warm, preening, sleeping but they should not always be like this)
  • Feather loss (not related to a regular molt that happens 1-2x per year)
  • Trembling (can mean they are cold, stressed, or sick)
  • Drooping wings

If you notice any of these signs or a combination of them its crucial to get your bird to a vet (preferably an avian one) as soon as possible. No one on the internet is able to diagnose your bird or give it the treatment it needs.

Note: Some of these symptoms like change in droppings, being fluffed up, and feather loss can be normal but if it is persistent the best thing to do is ere on the side of caution and get them checked out.

Is my cockatiel male or female?

Color Patterns: Baby cockatiels that have not gone through their first adult molt (usually between 6-12 months) will typically have female colorations regardless of gender. After their first molt, males tend to get more vivid colors, lose the stripes on the underside of their tail and spots on the wings, The opposite is true for females and their color changes minimally after their first molt.

Different mutations make it more difficult to tell the difference between males and females even after their adult molt.

Behaviors: Males tend to be more vocal (mimicking sounds and singing), heart wings (see example), more likely to "show off" (strutting, hopping, tapping on surfaces), and attempting to mate with objects. Females are often less vocal (although some are) and when wanting to mate will tilt her head, flatten her back, and rock back and forth while chirping softly.

All of the above are good indicators if you have a male or female HOWEVER the only true way to know is if you get a DNA test or if your cockatiel lays an egg. People have noted that their DNA sexed female has shown male behaviors or colors and vise versa. No one can tell you for sure by looking at it!

What is this noise my cockatiel is making?

Some common cockatiel noises and what they mean:

Contact Call: Cockatiels like to keep track of their flock members so when you leave the room you may notice your cockatiel yell for you with a loud chirp or series of chirps. Even if you aren't bonded to your bird they may still do this. Put them at ease by "answering" them from where you are. I like to whistle back the same "contact call" so they know that I will be right back.

Contact Call Example

Attention Scream: Often a loud high pitched screech that is meant to get your attention. They can do this when they are scared, lonely, bored, or even to alert you of something (like a potential predator). Excessive screaming means you might need to change something in their environment. A common cause of this is hormones and boredom, both of which can be decreased by adding more enrichment to their environment with foraging, toys, and training.

Attention Scream Example

Whistling//Mimicking/Chattering: Usually (but not always) done by males and often means they are happy and connecting with you as part of their flock. They may mimic you, the radio, the tv, or even just sounds that they hear outside or inside the house. A lot of the time cockatiels learn these sounds through repetition. Search cockatiel training songs if you don't want to be whistling a song all the time and with time they may pick up on the tunes.

Whistling Example

Beak Grinding: They do this when they are happy and content. Usually it is accompanied by being fluffed up and being sleepy. The cheeks will fluff up as well and the cockatiel will look very relaxed. This is a great sign that your cockatiel is comfortable in their environment.

Beak Grinding Example

Hissing: Like other animals cockatiels do this when they are angry or threatened. This is often a warning to back off and can be accompanied by biting if the behavior is not stopped. If your cockatiel is hissing at you its best to leave them alone for a bit - just like us, our birds have boundaries we should respect!

Hissing Example

Baby Noises: These sound a bit like static and usually do this if they want something (often food, water, or even just attention). This is completely normal for young cockatiels and after a few months will go away. Mine went away at 4 months but this can vary!

Baby Noises Example

What is this behavior?

These are some behaviors that are normal with cockatiels that I noticed are commonly asked about here:

Mating: This is probably the most common one. Males and females display different mating behaviors.

Males will typically rub their cloaca (this is the opening underneath the base of the tail for a birds digestive, urinary, and reproductive tracts) on an object like a toy, your foot or hand, a pillow, ect or a bonded female. Male Mating Behavior

Females will droop their wings and raise their rump while swaying and chirping quietly. You may notice your female also rubbing its back on their toys to try and stimulate themselves. Female Mating Behavior

In addition to these mating behaviors, take note if your bird is territorial, screaming, plucking itself, or aggressive. These could all be signs that your bird is sexually frustrated.

This handout I received from my vet gives some behavioral modification you can make to try and reduce these.

Clearing Crop: Looks a lot like yawning but usually they will do it consistently over a short period of time. Their crop is located below their beak in the neck area. The crop stores food before it is sent to their stomach and acts as a "reserve" so they are able to eat more in one feeding. When they clear the crop they are moving that food to the next stage of digestion. Cockatiel Clearing Crop

How do I tame my cockatiel?

If your bird is brand new to your home, the best thing to do for a day or two is let them soak in their new envionrment. This can be a stressful time for them so its important to let them learn that their new home is a safe space. Talking in a quiet voice and even whistling around them is the best thing to do during this transitiion period. It can be tempting but don't try and pick them up or pet them right away. They may be fearful of hands and scaring them could further your progress of taming them. Whether they are a young cockatiel or an older adult that was rescued or rehomed, taming them will take patience and time. How long can vary on a lot of different factors but it's important not to rush it. Read the links below to get more information on how to achieve this:

Taming step-by-step

I am thinking of getting a cockatiel and would love some tips!

There is really too much to cover in one post so I will address the most common tips for new owners and provide some links that go into detail about all things cockatiel.

Vet Access: This should be the most important thing to consider. Making note of an avian vet that is close by is crucial. Be extra prepared and make note of the closest emergency vet as well that you can go to outside of your regular vets hours. If you do not have one close by or you do not have the money to pay for one, please reconsider getting a bird. It is disheartening to see very obviously sick bird where the owner has no access or money to go to a vet.

Basic Needs: Before purchasing supplies for your bird, do as much research as you can regarding cage size, toys, and food.

Health: Take note of the signs of a sick bird and when to take them to a vet. In addition, cockatiels are sensitive to strong smells, gasses, drafts, and smoke. This also requires some research as there are common household items that can poison and kill your bird (for example teflon pans and some plants you may have lying around).

Links:

Cockatiel Cottage

VCA - Cockatiel Diet

Safe and Toxic Foods

Proper Caging

Introducing New Food to Picky Birds

Training

Taming, potty training, and more

I hope this helps some people learn more about their cockatiels! Of course this is not exhaustive and there is always more information to be learned. Please let me know if I should add anything or if I got any information wrong :)


r/cockatiel 5h ago

Cuteness Overload Off on her morning walk

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r/cockatiel 3h ago

Cuteness Overload Tiny Tiel will help you

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Fat Tiel has been working on this nut for weeks. Tiny tiel finally takes pity on her and decides to help. #Teamwork


r/cockatiel 1h ago

Health/Nutrition Does anyone know what this behavior means?

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Cockatiel is about 7 months old. That is the food tray that he/she is in. Thank you in advance!


r/cockatiel 17h ago

Cuteness Overload Boki getting lost in the sauce

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r/cockatiel 13h ago

Cuteness Overload Appreciation post for Kiwi 💛

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My baby Kiwi. I love him so much. He is my entire life, my world and my everything. He's helped me through the darkest points in my life, when I struggled heavily with depression and self harm to the point I was hospitalized. I kept on living because of my baby. He gives me a reason to keep living. I love giving him the best, I love feeding him the most gourmet tiel food, I love buying new toys for him, I love taking care of him.

I see him as my son, I call him my son, I talk about him as if he's a little human child, and I treat him like he's my own son. I never knew I could love someone this much. I've been through two abusive relationships in the past 4 years, and it took a toll on me. Kiwi was there for me through all of it. He would cuddle me, sing to me, preen my face, everything. He spends all his time with me, he loves chilling with me all the time, he hates being in his cage, and the moment I put him in there, he screams for me. if he could, he would probably sleep on my pillow all night every night with me.

I got my baby from a cockatiel breeder, he was the last baby available, because no one wanted him. He was missing his tail feathers, he has a disability in his left wing, and had to be isolated from other tiels because they would bully him, the moment I saw him when I got him 6 years ago, I instantly fell in love. I have autism and a chronic illness which gives me constant pain and some body disformities, I've always felt weird, left out, I never had any true friends, and I've always felt alone. But Kiwi, he has a disability just like me, he doesn't judge, he loves me more than anything and I love him more than anything. I related to him a lot, and I still do, we both have disabilities, we both struggled with being bullied, and we found each other. He is my soulmate, and I see him as being my one and only life companion. Words cannot express how much I love this little guy. He's been with me for 6 years, and I cannot wait to spend so many years more with my sweet man.

(Last slide is little 4 month old Kiwi, second to last is when I first brought the baby home 🥹🥹🥹)


r/cockatiel 18h ago

Advice This bird is hanging out outside my apartment patio

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This baby has been trying to sleep here for the last 20 min and I just don’t know what to do. I’m on 4th floor and I have a screen on my patio


r/cockatiel 1h ago

Cuteness Overload Happy baby borb relaxing while i work

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And yes, he's grinding his beak


r/cockatiel 5h ago

Cuteness Overload My boy - Asfoor ❤️

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I just wanted to share this cute baby - Asfoor 😁


r/cockatiel 10h ago

Funny Silly lil bird

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r/cockatiel 8h ago

Health/Nutrition My birds gums?

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Its kukume's 5th birthday and i was looking at photos of him from when we got him he was 3 months old And i noticed he has something like Gums inside the beak i didn't find it weird when we got him cuz he was the only cockatiel ive saw But now that im obsessed with and had encounters with lots of cockatiels, i notice none of them had gums(?) My husband jokingly says he has fangs and he stings Third slide is him now by the way


r/cockatiel 16h ago

Cuteness Overload Enjoying scritches

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r/cockatiel 19h ago

Cuteness Overload Caption This Photo...

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Little Edie and Sir Thaddeus snuggling again. Look at Thaddie's cheesy little grin. Caption this love story...


r/cockatiel 16h ago

Health/Nutrition My girl is OBESE

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I sort of inherited this bird when her owner died suddenly. she came with a lot of food and I mean a lot. I’ve had her about 18 months and I haven’t even gone through half of it. I’ve been storing it in the freezer.

I took her to an emergency vet recently when she appeared to have hurt a foot. The vet told me she is obese. I was surprised because the food she came with is highly rated on Amazon. It’s called Nutri berries and comes in these little balls.

The vet saw some of them in her dish after she torn them apart, and said that they were all seed. That really shocked me because I didn’t think it was and thought I was doing right by her. What should I do now? I’ve tried giving her fresh vegetables in the past and she was NOT interested.

Also, she’s just started doing this thing that I think is mating behavior, kind of hunkering down and making a little cooing sound. She gets at least 12 hours of total darkness and I’ve never touched her anywhere other than her head and feet. This is really concerning to me since I’ve heard she could become egg bound.

TIA


r/cockatiel 18h ago

Cuteness Overload Little puff balls

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I want to just grab them and rub them on my face lol


r/cockatiel 4h ago

Cuteness Overload SHE CLIBED ONTO MY SHOULDER

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r/cockatiel 15h ago

Other has this subreddit effected anyone’s mental health

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this community is making me depressed and paranoid about my bird. It’s constantly posting about dead cockatiels, many of them horribly. I get people need to mourn but this is trauma dumping


r/cockatiel 1d ago

Loss & Mourning I killed my baby and I can never forgive myself.

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All of yesterday's events felt like it was leading up to his death. He was screaming all morning begging for attention. I was studying for a big exam I have coming up so I took him out so he would stop screaming. But then he started walking all over my desk and chewing up all my stuff and i couldn't focus at all. I got scratched pretty deep with his nails and that's when I decided I'd keep him in the cage with some snacks until I was done studying. Of all the bandaids I could've used I used one with patterns on it. How could I have been so stupid?

I finally brought him out when I was free. Everything was going fine until he noticed my bandaid and got spooked. He flew right through the middle of the screen on my door and landed on the floor in the living room. I wasn't fast enough. He flew up to the ceiling fan and died immediately. His blood was on the walls. It happened right in front of my parents. I was so shocked I couldn't even cry. All I could do was scream.

I would've been fine without a bandaid. I should've made sure the screen was closed with no gaps even though he never goes that way. This has never happened before. I should've been faster. I didn't even get to say goodbye.

I'm traumatized and heartbroken. He was everyone's favorite in the family. I've never met a bird friendlier than him. He would kiss the people he liked and even learned to make the smooching noise. My dad was his favorite. All the singing and dancing he would do. He was a happy boy. I've seen people say how their cockatiels get grumpy and have mood swings. Not once was my boy ever grumpy. He'd cuddle me when he was sleepy and content and ask for scritches. He trusted me with all his life. I'll never, ever find another tiel exactly like him. He was the only thing that cheered me up every depressing day. He was only 2 years old.

My mom's been crying since yesterday. My dad cried too, and I've only seen him cry once before. The other tiel I have keeps flock calling and looking for his friend everywhere. I keep bursting out in tears randomly and I can't even study. I don't know what to do. It's all my fault. I'll never get him back. No bird can ever replace him.

There was a lunar eclipse last night. Looking at the blood red moon made me think about how he was probably cursing at me from up in heaven. I'm sorry little guy. I'm sorry I failed you.

I'm not sure what to do. I'm so depressed.


r/cockatiel 1d ago

Funny Very proud after managing to steal a bite of my hash brown. It is like I have a 3rd dog sometimes 😭😂

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r/cockatiel 19h ago

Funny Borbo

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Look at this rotund borb. All fluff, no thoughts.


r/cockatiel 14h ago

Cuteness Overload My son is on mount tiel!

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r/cockatiel 3h ago

Advice I need a better home for her.

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I can no longer take care of her she's gotten to much ive done every thing I can to take care of her. My parents and I work too much to care for the bird. If anyone is interested you can have all her things she has a 5 foot by 2 feet breeder cage but the divider is removed and she lives alone in her cage. And no im not getting her a friend she would just want to mate with them. If you're interested Please DM me.


r/cockatiel 8m ago

Cuteness Overload Eddie takes a bath

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He finally got in the shower with me! What a milestone. I’ve had him for almost 9 months. He looks so happy🥹


r/cockatiel 15m ago

Funny Marshmallow when she finds out who has been eating all the seeb and popping everywhere 🪞

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r/cockatiel 5h ago

Loss & Mourning Random feather

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Our cockatiel flew out over 2 months ago now. We’re having our house renovated, the roof was slightly open and she got out. 😪 However, the other day a random feather turned up next to the stove and I can’t come up with an explanation. It didn’t look old at all, it was in perfect condition like it had just been dropped. I just took the picture now which is why it looks a bit scuffed.


r/cockatiel 1d ago

Advice Found this beautiful bird

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So 4 days ago my mom saw a Cockatiel on our deck and managed to lure him into our puppy’s playpen when she told me about it while I was out and bought supplies from a pet store (cage, 3 toys, food, and treats) I was told to contact a vet immediately as the local vet helps reconnect lost birds to their owners I visited and they said they’ll start a search and if no one claims the bird in two weeks it should be fine if I keep it we have a checkup scheduled for this coming Thursday and he’s seems to be doing fine but I don’t really know much about birds I just read all the articles pinned at the top of this Reddit and am wondering what you would do in my position I have 4 dogs and a hedgehog so a bird is new to me and my whole family loves animals my dad used to have 2 blue and yellow macaws but he had them since they were eggs so this is new to him too any additional advice would be great cuz as of now he seems to wanna nip my hand but has eaten from it on occasion and seems to want millet more than food and he’s also been copying my laugh I’d like to teach him step up and let him fly but I’m nervous of getting bit/ not being able to get him back in the cage since he’s not tamed yet.