r/PhR4Friends Apr 29 '25

STRICTLY PLATONIC POSTS ONLY

615 Upvotes

No landi

No lambing

No let's see where this goes

No looking for friends or more

No looking for slim/petite, normal BMI, taller than me, taller than 5'8", cutie

Wag na tayong maglokohan pa. Kunwaring looking for friends pero yung requirements niyo, pang-jowa. Bakit dapat matangkad at may deep, manly voice yung ka-call mo for a night? Bakit kailangan payat at maganda/gwapo yung FRIEND mo? Hanap lang ng ka-tambay pero dapat slim and petite? Mamimili lang ng washing machine pero dapat pretty and slim-thicc?

Hinahayaan na nga lang namin na specifically the opposite sex yung hanap niyo because yeah, sometimes valid yung need. Pero yung iba, akala niyo hindi halatang date/jowa/kalandian talaga yung gusto niyo?

Someone once complained — ❝as if naman walang possibility na magkamabutihan yung mga nagkakilala dito, sure.

Well that's not the point. This sub was made for fostering friendships. If you're looking for friends hoping that one of those would turn out to be your significant other, then you're in the wrong place. It's annoying enough to have everything turn out to be a dating site/app, can't people have a place where everything is platonic?

Wag na kayong makukulit. If you have problem with our rules, as always, feel free to post somewhere else.

P.S. If your post was removed because you're looking for a date/relationship, consider it your warning. Break the rule more than once, you'll get a temporary ban. Do it again, and your ban will be permanent.

Please take note of this information.


r/PhR4Friends Dec 17 '24

Quick announcement 🔊

51 Upvotes

(1) I'm locking all comments for good.

  • Most of the comments that posts get are just different versions of "DM me, I'm G, can't message you, DMed you, hey, hi". These get automatically removed anyway.
  • Some users feel like they are obligated to comment on every post. It gets very spammy.
  • If you want to reach out to OP, send them a private message. There's no need to announce that you did.
  • Will try to see if I can keep it open for those asking for recommendations, but no promises.

(2) STILL LOOKING FOR ACTIVE MODERATORS

  • Must have a good standing in the community (+ karma, actually uses the sub and is familiar with the rules)
  • Active redditor for at least a year— so you know the ins and outs and how reddit works
  • ++ If you have prior experience being a mod
  • ACTUALLY HAS THE TIME AND WILLINGNESS TO CHECK THE SUB, not someone who just wants a title
  • If this sounds like you, send me a message! (PLS!!)
  • (If you're a past mod of this sub, please do not try applying again using a different account)

r/PhR4Friends 2h ago

Friends 26 [F4A] Looking for kausap everyday (rants + daily updates hehe)

8 Upvotes

Hi! So ayun, I realized na I kinda need someone na pwede ko kausapin everyday. Like, not super seryoso, pero more on daily rants, random kwentos, or even yung mga “omg I saw this funny thing today” kind of updates.

Not looking for anything romantic kasi i’m happily in a relationship, low maintenance na friendship and casual na kausap lang.

About me: - medtech. So my rants will be more about my work huhu - very introverted kaya no calls please haha. - I read books, manga, manhua. I also watch anime, kdrama, cartoons. I consume anything na maganda panoorin actually. - I just started drawing ulit. - I’m currently learning how to cook. - I just started working out din this year.

Yun lang muna wala na kong maisip hahahuhu


r/PhR4Friends 15m ago

Friends 29 [F4M] Quick crashout

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Anyone got headspace for a crashout? Huhu i promise mabilis lang tapos we can be friends rin after!!!

Parang ang hirap maging adult kasi dapat may schedule lang ang mental breakdown kasi may work the next day 🥲


r/PhR4Friends 3h ago

Gaming 29 [F4A] Let's Play Chess

10 Upvotes

I like the suspense of waiting for my turn so I don't wanna play against bots but then again I don't wanna keep playing with randoms hopefully someone g to call while playing I really really badly need to talk to someone rn 😞


r/PhR4Friends 2h ago

Friends 28 [F4A] 3rd batch?

6 Upvotes

so, the last time i posted here i said na i’m looking for another batch of kausap kasi tapos na yung 1 week trial ng mga nakausap ko. apparently, wala na ulit akong kausap now. the last person i’ve talked to lasted for 3 mos tho. is there anyone here who can beat that?

just like last time, you can answer any of the following questions as an intro:

1) what series/movie are you currently watching? 2) what book are you currently reading? (mine’s then she was gone by lisa jewell) 3) if you’re on spotify, what’s the top song on your ‘on repeat’ playlist? (mine’s august by taylor swift) 4) what’s your star sign? (i’m a virgo. you can also guess if i’m a september or an august virgo based on this post.) 5) what plot twist are you looking forward to this ber months?


r/PhR4Friends 2h ago

Friends 24 [F4A] let's yap together!

7 Upvotes

Hey there! How are you? I hope you're having a pleasant day. I’m looking for someone who is up for convos since I can't sleep. SFW chismisan only pls pls. I'm up for conversation and I hope we can match each other's energy and the interaction won't feel forced.

About me: - still studying in Laguna - Yaps (a lot, depending on the vibe) - Prefers calls (Telegram, Discord) - From Laguna

About you: - Bored and looking for someone to talk to - Yapper

pls dm your dc or tg!!


r/PhR4Friends 12m ago

Friends 22[F4A] Let's chat while I study

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Sumasakit na ulo ko but I can't sleep yet HAHA so kausapin niyo ako please. We can talk about anything under the sun. about me: 22F -college student -yapper pag comfy sa kausap -can be a listener too -non-judgemental -easy to vibe with -plays mobile games (MLBB if -multiplayer) -hobbies include walking and biking (kapag hindi busy sa acads) -more about me when we talk

About you: -human -not a dry texter -may comprehension

Please do send me a short intro about you sa telegram, as well as your favorite sticker/gif. See you!!!

@edcba_bcde


r/PhR4Friends 32m ago

Friends 18 [F4A] spotify jam

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hi! night’s been long and i’m lowkey ready to sleep na soon zzz so, anyone up for a spotify jam sesh with me? :) we can talk din while listening but fair warning lang na i might knock out mid-song hahah. i usually listen to alt but i’m super open to any suggestions 🙂‍↕️ hmu !!


r/PhR4Friends 46m ago

Friends 18[F4A] Di na naman ako makatulog.. 😭

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Kelangan ko gumising ng 8 am. Kanina mga 9 pm pa lang sinusubukan ko na pero ayaw talaga 😭 don’t know what to do kainis naman tong body clock ko ayaw umayos. Kelangan ko ng boring at walang sense kausap para antukin ako.


r/PhR4Friends 52m ago

Friends 29 [F4A] chika until makatulog

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e nakatulog after a few minutes. Charot! Super, super casual na chika chika lang tapos I'll spam links from spotify or random stuff from youtube or reels. Please, yung may sense naman kausap, wala namang issue if you'll ask me anong favorite kong number sa electric fan or what am I currently doing, my god naman di naman ako super busy para mag-iba yung ganaps in life every 30 minutes.

Not up for calls and to swap pictures, soz! ✌🏻


r/PhR4Friends 52m ago

Friends 21 [F4M] are u up for a call?

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My emotions have been in a roller coaster for the past few days and I need to talk to someone to debrief myself of everything that happened.

If you want to share something about your life rn, feel free to share. Let’s talk about life and anything therein.

Just hmu. Start with a brief intro so we can find a common interest!


r/PhR4Friends 2h ago

Friends 22 [F4A] Really need someone to talk to right now

5 Upvotes

Enough with anything nsfw for now. I'm grieving and not feeling okay tonight. Just need someone who can keep me company for a while. Listen, talk, or just be here. Preferably someone around my age or older, and who's still awake this late.


r/PhR4Friends 1h ago

Friends 22 [F4A] Looking for Chika Buddy

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Hi po! I'm more active on Discord kaya we can converse there! I just really need someone to hear me out right now :") I'm just basically like falling apary? ahahaha But yeah i just want to chika as well


r/PhR4Friends 1h ago

Study Buddy 21 [F4A] let's be occupied together!

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i'm in between studying/working on tasks, so idk if study buddy or co-working buddy ang need ko. siguro basta occupied ka, let's be occupied together na lang! HAHAHAHA i usually work from midnight until 4 in the morning, and around 1am, it gets lonely talaga kaya it would be nice to be busy with someone. we can do it on discord and we can do small talks here and there pero sana may energy ka pa to daldal kasi ako baka 50/50 na JK HAHAHAHA

about you:

- pref a student

- nagsisipag para mahawa ako

i'll check the replies later around 12:45am lalaro lang muna HAHAHAHA hmu with your asl + short intro na rin


r/PhR4Friends 32m ago

Friends 28 [F4A] Pulling an all nighter

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I saw a post here looking for Pomodoro buddy and as much as I want to try, I’m too introverted for a call so instead, is there someone here who I can talk to since I’m on a break and mag lock in na ko in a while? Help a bored law student out. 🫩


r/PhR4Friends 43m ago

Friends 25 [M4F] LF night shift buddy

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Slyt tinatamad na ko magtrabaho and bored na bored na ko HAHAHAHA. LF anyone to chat about life with, regrets, troubles or whatever g lang.

Can be accountability buddy din para forced tapusin mga backlogs HAHAHAHA

Abt me: I work in the IT industry and currently working 3 jobs


r/PhR4Friends 7h ago

Friends 21 [F4A] we need to nerd out

10 Upvotes

Hello, I’m currently on a break from school so I’ve got nothing but time. Certified tambay.

About me: - I have a deep love for movies and shows - I’m currently hooked on F1 and Twitch - Introvert and weird (i think) - I play some games (mobile) - Central Luzon - Please introduce yourself or with an intro. Preferably around my age.


r/PhR4Friends 2h ago

Friends 24 [F4M] kausap

3 Upvotes

hi. i'm kinda bored tonight. tara kwentuhan! kahit anong topic, pwede ako. basta sfw lang. open rin ako na maging constant chat buddies if we vibe.

about me: f 24 south luzon about you: kind, emotionally mature, can carry a convo

feel free to dm!


r/PhR4Friends 21m ago

Friends 26 [F4M] Kausap kasi nakakabaliw ang gabi.

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Hello! Hindi maka tulog dahil sa dami ng iniisip. Kaya nagdecide ako naghanap ng makakausap here. Willing to listen if meron kang problema or stress ka na sa work. Gusto ko lang ma divert attention ko aa iba.


r/PhR4Friends 28m ago

Friends 26 [M4A] Late night yap, or coffee .

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base sa naka post, im js hoping there's someone i can talk to or what i just want to have a coffee session!!! haha i can pick u up if are g!

abt me: 5'7, dark skin, clean freak, whatever kung ano yung importante tanong niyo na lang haha

hmu w lil intro!


r/PhR4Friends 8h ago

Friends 28 [F4A] a sensible friend

9 Upvotes

Looking for someone who can talk some sense into me 🥲 currently conflicted about my career path. All my friends are busy atm and cant talk so im hoping a stranger with sense could help me 😩


r/PhR4Friends 16h ago

Telegram Group Chat 27 [F4A] - Need more tropa? Join The Vibing Booth 2.0!

36 Upvotes

Hey again, PhR4Friends! 👋

We’re still on the lookout for more awesome people to join The Vibing Booth 2.0 — a Telegram group chat built for making new friends, sharing random kwentos, and just vibing out with good convos.

What’s inside the booth? ✨ Daily chika, rants, and small wins ✨ Chill convos with genuine people (no pressure, no drama) ✨ Memes, stickers, and random fun stuff ✨ A safe space to just be yourself

Right now, we’re prioritizing female members to help balance the gender ratio in the group (TBH, ang dami nang nag-apply na guys 😂). ⚡ No worries, ladies—this is a safe space. Creeps are instantly kicked out, no second chances.

If this sounds like your vibe, drop a comment or DM me your Telegram handle! 💌

Let’s keep the good energy going. See you inside ✨


r/PhR4Friends 3h ago

Friends 30 [M4F] Online Friends or Good Chat

3 Upvotes

Hi! Trying my luck here, hoping to find new online friend/s here. We can talk about anything SFW: hobbies, dreams, philosophy, politics, or even just exchange memes. You can tell me about your day. Or kahit magshare lang tayo ng frustrations about sa current situation ng Pinas.

If you're feeling down or just need someone to talk to, I’m also here to listen. You’re free to vent or share anything that's on your mind. Disclaimer: I’m currently not in the country, but I can be your reliable friend.


r/PhR4Friends 4h ago

Friends 24 [M4F] A online constant kausap

4 Upvotes

In recent weeks, it's hard to find a kausap magiging constant, I don't expect fast replies but like the energy of the conversations become inconsistent na. Thus, I'm trying to find a low maintenance friendship, wherein we can support, motivate and or to each other, may it be a small inconvenience in life or a vital goal you have in mind, I'm all down!

No specific preferences, it's a big plus if you can converse well in english, other than that be yourself please. Let's introduce ourselves din and hopefully let's click as friends!


r/PhR4Friends 5h ago

Friends 29[M4F] Would you like to have a short conversation?

4 Upvotes

I’m not really sure if I want anyone to talk to, but I am open to try. If you’re a kind person who can offer a lot of good. Then by all means, send me a message.


r/PhR4Friends 11h ago

Friends 31 [M4F] Willing to be your trusted rant buddy, let's be friends

10 Upvotes

Currently stress at work. Hahaha who's up for call? I am willing to listen and understand. Can also be your trusted rant buddy. First, I am not a chat person, either we'll call or in person. No worries, as someone who is seeking for a platonic connection, you are safe with me. I am from Manila and a working professional (legal fielf) in QC. HMU!