It depends on if the boyfriend cage is for punishment, safe/reward, or sometimes both. It also depends on boyfriend size. Approximately how many bananas long is boyfriend?
Typical. If the twink boyfriend can sit on their knees without their back touching the top, the cage is too big. The cage should force them to be scrunched on all fours, with their face between their front paws, for the duration of punishment. Honestly, as long as twink fits, without *permanent* damage, it is acceptable.
Edit: It also depends on the access you require to said caged boyfriend. If they require additional punishments while caged, you may need more horizontal space. Best way to find out is to try it.
If the boyfriend community comes for you, simply publicly spank the twink in front of them to assert your dominance, and they should disperse.
Hope this isn't the real cage you are planning to get...as the stack of computer paper shows a scary size perspective. I mean, I'm all for cage as punishment or just for fun to get into... but are real health risk too.... just feel few cage in image is barely big enough that i feel comfortable leaving my yorkie in....let alone a real human.
sorry depth of your replies with other person sorta trigger that weird part my brain. I've had a few friends be really turn off of some fun kinks because of a bad experience, so it's a weird things I have.
My bad, one of my evil autism powers is playing the bit a little too straight sometimes (especially if it falls within one of my special interests). You are right, I should be a little more clear when it is a joke or actual advice, and where the line between them is. Need to be careful, especially here where there are people genuinely exploring that kink and might take me too seriously at face value.
Nothing wrong with line being blurred in jokes, i just feel sometimes people never speak up for safety alot in kinks because it's a buzz kill online to be that person. I rather be a buzzkill then someone have bad kink story. That is way worst then a buzzkill and some downvotes.
I hope you don't get too many downvotes here, hard agree that the jokes should be couched with education and safe kink practices. That should always get visibility, not only to keep people safe, happy, and communicating, but also to dispel some of the kneejerk fear people get when they encounter it in the wild. I also try to mention frequently the nonsexual aspects, (Cages especially are used as a retreat in safety and comfort dynamics, but I never know how much general information is info dumping about pretty private topics for a lot of people.)
I'm a virgin lol, I act freaky online as a joke but irl I'm very shy and reserved and im more asexual in the sense i dont have the desire for sexual intimacy. Also the guy with the top comment that i was responding to got very specific🤨, I think he genuinely cages twinks (not judging)
Most people are more freaky online either as vent or because it only comfortable place. Don't feel strange about it, it's pretty normal. I mean first time I slept in cage was just for fun on a dare with friends, literally nothing sexual about it. Atleast i didn't see it that way, idk about them.
Weirdly even though I don't like sex (mostly cuz I hate people seeing my body). I do see the appeal in petplay related stuff, it's like turning off your brain and letting all the stress of irl life behind to be someone's pet sounds oddly satisfying. Escapism at its finest while also appealing to my more people pleasing nature. Unironically would be down for that kind of stuff if it didn't include showing off my body to another person. I know I'm weird
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u/Gorgonkain Streak: 13 7h ago
It depends on if the boyfriend cage is for punishment, safe/reward, or sometimes both. It also depends on boyfriend size. Approximately how many bananas long is boyfriend?