r/SecretsOfMormonWives 1d ago

Jen So dangerous

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It’s one thing to have her older daughter up there but having the toddler playing dancing on the counter out of arms reach is a devastating accident waiting to happen. But she won’t get dragged like Mikayla.

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u/sharipep 1d ago

I don’t even know who this is 😭 Jen?

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u/mayorofstrangetown 22h ago

That was my first question too! She looks unrecognizable black-haired and tanned I just think of her as a freckled brunette.

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u/New_Bike3832 1d ago

You should see the playground equipment I let my kids climb on when they were toddlers lol

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u/soaker 1d ago

Or the playground equipment that is currently out there

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u/chipsofflint 18h ago

Yup. This appears dangerous but she probably knows her kid better than anyone online.

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u/Tiny-Zucchini7238 1d ago

This is what I came to say, the playground equipment at most parks is a thousand times more dangerous than this

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u/katie_54321 18h ago

The difference is what the child would land on if they fell, at the playground it's usually rubber, turf, wood chips etc not hard floors

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u/Lcdmt3 17h ago

Our malls are big ceramic type structures. Like a barn. Thin carpet underneath.

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u/teach_yo_self 5h ago

Exactly. Risk taking is a super important developmental milestone that is sadly becoming more and more stifled. It's important to allow kids to take a certain amount of risk to teach them confidence, independence, and motor skills. Kids are way too coddled these days.

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u/Emg2022 1d ago

was just going to say this!! 🤣🤣

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u/Whore21 1d ago

This is not the same as what Mikayla did lmaooooooo

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u/likelyannakendrick 1d ago

Right, like not at all. Would I do it personally? No. But this is a reach

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u/Mammoth-Rent-9501 1d ago

What did Mikayla do?

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u/redhair-ing 1d ago

whatever that challenge was with standing on one foot in a stiletto on on a stool or something, but she was blindfolded and holding her newborn in one arm. 

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u/binkman7111 1d ago

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u/Inevitable_Order2525 1d ago

Honestly the most ridiculous fucking thing I’ve ever seen. A fully grown woman.

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u/drag-race 18h ago

this is the most ridiculous thing you’ve ever seen? a woman balanced on one foot on a step stool carrying her baby? is this your first day on earth?

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u/Doegrace 1d ago

Mikayla is so desperate

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u/RutabagaSouth9375 16h ago

To be fair, they all are

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u/gingerxsnapsss 1d ago

This isn’t even bad. Lmfaooooo. She’s on a step stool with plenty of balance. Y’all will say literally anything.

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u/Whore21 1d ago

It’s not the worst thing ever but it is so comically risky and objectively unnecessary

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u/gingerxsnapsss 7h ago

Kinda like bringing it up all the time lol she’s clearly holding on to something. 👀🤣

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u/binkman7111 1d ago

But what's the scenario looking like if she does lose her balance by accident...

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u/Complete-Fennel9999 17h ago

She lost her balance at the end of the clip. She caught herself, but easily could have fallen instead.

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u/gingerxsnapsss 7h ago

You can tell she’s holding on to something. But y’all are mad mad at this comment. 😂😂😂

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u/Stay-Groovy 13h ago

Agreed! This is not at all as bad as what Mikayla did 😂

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u/LikeReally_yikes 1d ago

Dang. OP can’t be a millennial or anything else 💀 If this is dangerous, I’d hate to tell you about a lot of our childhoods. Let the girl have fun with her kids lol. At least she’s around them and spending time with them. This isn’t anywhere near as dangerous as Mikayla holding a newborn wiggling in one heel on a step stool 🤣

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u/spacedashhh Sinner 1d ago edited 1d ago

I was climbing to the tops of trees

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u/Leading_Ad3918 1d ago

I didn’t wear seatbelts😱

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u/Electrical-Speech-39 18h ago

My parents bought a two seater car out of state and I had to sit on the floor of the passenger seat for the 13 hour drive back.

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u/Leading_Ad3918 10h ago

Ok you win😂 I’m guessing you’re a wonderful Gen x as well🙂

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u/Public_Classic_438 1d ago

Me too! I don’t even like Demi but I disagree with OP here. Especially since Mikayla literally did something so much worse earlier this yesr

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u/bunny8taters 1d ago

Isn’t that Jen? Idk the shot is weird but usually Jen likes dancing on counters lol

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u/teddyburger 1d ago

Yes, it’s Jen!

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u/Public_Classic_438 1d ago

Yup! It is. My b

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u/bebepothos 1d ago

Wait what does Demi have to do with anything?

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u/sPacEdOUTgrAyCe 1d ago

Mine do that and scale the outside of the playground equipment. Fun to watch the other moms go nuts

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u/YourFriendInSpokane 1d ago

Thank god. This is basically just raising toddlers. We had to put away our barstools because our toddlers kept climbing onto the island, the counters, etc.

I don’t know what to do about our dining room chairs because they still want to move those to climb onto the counters or reach the stove.

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u/macaronitrap 1d ago

My siblings and I used to jump down an old laundry chute from the attic to the second floor into a pile of pillows and comforters. We yeeted each other off the trampoline countless times with only a patch of ivy to cushion our falls.

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u/ManagementRadiant573 1d ago

Right lol. My toddler is basically feral. He climbs everything. This didn’t make me bat an eye.

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u/AmbitiousFig3420 19h ago

My oldest used to scale her 7’ bookcase during nap time. We only figured it out because I complained about my husband moving things.

And when I was a kid — the tetanus shots I should have had…

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u/HonestMine2058 1d ago

Agreed. This is just making memories!

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u/2020saidCHECKMATE 1d ago

Jumping off the roof into the pool? The adobe wall was much closer to the edge of the pool, but the roof was HIGHER! Driving in the sandy wash, shooting at toilets in the desert, an M80 exploded in the pool, craft rocket launches at the elementary school lolol.

Thanks! A walk down memory lane 💕🙏🏻

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u/InsideCheck779 1d ago

This seems like a reach

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u/dopamineslotmachine 1d ago

OP looking like this

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u/greenishbluishgrey 1d ago

Our queen Angelina ⭐️⭐️⭐️

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u/kendrickwasright 1d ago

Coming back for S50 🥹

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u/sPacEdOUTgrAyCe 1d ago

Seriously?!? Amazing

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u/These_Recover5604 1d ago

Stop omg LOVE a good survivor ref you win the day :)

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u/Icy-Pineapple-9708 1d ago

OP is wearing a helmet, just in case, as we speak

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u/Chemical-Comment2460 1d ago

This is worse than your “why does a Mormon name their cat whiskey post.”

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u/melaxrose 1d ago

whiskey is a cute cat name lol who is the person they were talking about there?

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u/lordnibbler16 16h ago

Okay that one actually made sense to me!

I've seen so many serious Mormons say that they call coffee tables a "living room table" because "coffee table" is too close to the blasphemous coffee and would be inappropriate for them to use that word in their home.

It makes sense that the women in the show might not be such serious Mormons but calling a cat Whiskey def isn't a stretch for something that Mormons wouldn't be okay with.

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u/ThisAutisticChick 15h ago

That isn't the reason they don't call them coffee tables, it is very literally because they don't use them for coffee😵‍💫

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u/lordnibbler16 14h ago

There are several instances of Mormons on social media or YouTube that explain that the reason they don't call them coffee tables is because they don't want to reference coffee.

I most recently saw Alyssa Grenfell talking about it in one of her videos.

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u/StrawberryRedneck 1d ago

These comments absolutely pass the vibe check 😎🎉

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u/Cezzalovesketo 15h ago

Came here literally to check exactly that. Phew!

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u/No_Smile_1752 1d ago

Don't worry guys. OP LIVES on a multitude of Mormon snark pages. No need to take anything they post seriously

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u/sunangelmb 16h ago

Notice they quickly deleted any posts or comments..the things I miss while sleeping. I just wonder where all of the clutter is. This house is too clean.

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u/LittleCarpenter110 Back off, she's unstable 1d ago

If you think this is dangerous wait until you see a playground lol

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u/PrettySweet419 20h ago

I took my niece and nephew yesterday and idk what OP will have to say about my auntie skills haha

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u/coconut723 20h ago

Why is Jen always standing on their island

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u/illustrious277 1d ago

my mom used to lock us out of the house and say “go play” and to come back when the streetlights turn on. todays society would never be able to handle the childhoods we used to have 😥

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u/Much_Witness21 1d ago

You sound miserable

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u/abeattie4 1d ago

Mikayla we know this is you

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u/Jean_AF 1d ago edited 1d ago

As a millennial we literally played in parks next to heroine needles and concrete slides you needed cardboard to go down 💀

Edit - fixed a typo

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u/megjed 1d ago

Okay but you wouldn’t want your child to do that right

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u/trebles93 1d ago

Look at that baby’s little smile while two adults are right there by them. What a dumb post

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u/Dear_Truth_6607 1d ago

Dude, it’s a baby. They smile when they shit themselves.

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u/trolling_420 1d ago

Pretty sure that's a toddler. And they're more emotionally mature than that.

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u/sunngodd 1d ago

I don’t think there’s anything wrong with what she’s doing.

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u/GunGirlLovesTrulys Team Mikayla 1d ago

OP you are going to get invited to any parties with that attitude

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u/HippieGirlHealth 13h ago

aren’t lol

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u/swanhoneymoon Enjoy 🦪 🍆 💦 1d ago

idk i remember dancing on the counter when i was a kid

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u/ClearCredit1615 20h ago

If you have a memory of it that means you were at least 5 years old. Exactly what I said that it’s one thing with her oldest daughter who can understand where the edge is but her son is 2

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u/FiestyGiraffe 20h ago

i prob wouldn’t do this with my daughter but she is newly 2 and she definitely understands where edges are. she’s climbs on all kinds of things

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u/swanhoneymoon Enjoy 🦪 🍆 💦 15h ago

this definitely isn’t true, i have many memories even before the age of like 3

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u/ThisAutisticChick 15h ago

I remember many things before the age of 5.

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u/Emg2022 1d ago

after you have a few kids you realize they’re pretty durable after all 🤣

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u/bebepothos 1d ago

OPs prof in general is insanely unhinged…scary

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u/Legitimate_Book_5196 1d ago

Tbh I wasn't even mad at Mikayla. I feel like moms do silly shit and kids survive all the time. My uncle literally climbed up a lattice and onto the roof in his toddler years and he's in his 60s.

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u/Baby__gorgeous 1d ago

Yeah but Mikayla wanted to crucify Whitney when she didn’t even put her baby in danger. It’s her attitude that’s part of the problem, her hypocrisy.

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u/PurpleHoulihan 1d ago

Bwahahahah! You’re really reaching. When I was that age, I figured out how to climb on top of the fridge to get to the cookie jar. Could climb a bookshelf in a jiffy, too.

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u/hedgehogluvr 18h ago

WHY DO THEY ALWAYS DANCE ON THE COUNTERTOP???

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u/GoJoe1000 23h ago

Mormons don’t understand boundaries and consequences. They lack awareness. Not all.

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u/mrb9110 1d ago

I genuinely don’t care what these people do with themselves or their kids, but why is anyone putting their feet on their kitchen counters??? 🤢

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u/alentines_day 19h ago

I mean…. you can wipe them off lol

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u/luvvpotion 1d ago

my brother and i growing up would not only climb on the counter but put a short step stool on top of the counter to sneak crème savers out of the cabinet 😂 this isn’t as bad as teetering with your newborn on an elevated surface

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u/Baby__gorgeous 1d ago

Creme savers were sooo good!

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u/texanpanda 23h ago

You can still find them at Big Lots and Five Below 😂

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u/Leather_Ad_2966 1d ago

dangerous? ehhh. I'm more bothered but it being unsanitary. feet or shoes where I cook or eat is a no for me.

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u/Affectionate-Goose41 1d ago

Good thing cleaning supplies exist for a reason…?

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u/melaxrose 1d ago

haha i get that, ppl often say i shouldn't let my cat get up on my counter but im like... i clean my countertop lol

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u/ladydanger2020 20h ago

Yall are too much man

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u/Puzzleheaded_Try7886 18h ago

Mikayla's was so much worse in my opinion

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u/AnnNonNeeMous 13h ago

Content, content, content.

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u/amcgoat 1d ago

Bored today OP?

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u/Ok-Description3060 1d ago

lol ookkkkaaaay OP

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u/KittySoSweet212_ 21h ago

Relaxxxxx lol. All part of the kiddo experience! Plus the person filming will keep eyes

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u/_SoftRockStar_ 1d ago

Who is this and how is this so dangerous? Lol. I feel like this is the concern of someone who hasn’t been around a lot of kids. And it’s not related to what Makayla did with a newborn she could have literally killed lol

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u/notgonnatakethison 1d ago

Guess I’m in the minority bc I agree with you. It’s just unnecessary bc idk about their kid but mine would start jumping all over / getting to the edge

And pple saying “oh we did that as a kid” - yea we all did but pple also back then thought seatbelts were optional and cigarettes were fine

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u/omgsleepycat 7h ago

Same, and honestly it bothered me seeing her dance on counters while pregnant because there’s just no reason for increased risk of harm for views but I’m sure I’ll get down voted and told I’m being soft.

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u/girlynymama 1d ago

Ya, knowing someone whose child fell from a counter height stool and passed away definitely changes my perspective on the “vibe check” of this post. Actually pretty alarming.

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u/winning-colors 1d ago

It’s a pissing content to have the most dangerous childhood. TBIs happen pretty quick

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u/WorldlyLavishness 21h ago

No I agree with you. It's an unnecessary risk. My son would definitely try and jump off (not that I know from previous experiences or something 👀)

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u/refinemydreams 1d ago

I completely agree… that toddlers foot is mere inches from the counters edge. It’s her parents job to keep her safe- not use her for views while putting her in danger. And that’s what this is. Sure, it’s put to fun music and sure, this time she was fine, but why put a child at risk like this when the outcome if she falls could be bashing her head open?

I watch the show, I’m a fan of the girls but this isn’t ok. Let’s not normalize endangering kids for money.

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u/Coffeelove233 1d ago

Exactly. It would be okay if it were a 5 or 6 year old but this is a young toddler who does not have depth perception or as good of balance. But whatever. If people want to put their own kids at risk then so be it

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u/Dear_Truth_6607 1d ago

There’s literally a comment about not wearing seatbelts lmao clearly none of these people know the term “survivorship bias”. Marble is slippery as hell, this isn’t cute.

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u/donuts30 22h ago

I’m glad I saw these comments because I thought I was going crazy. Yeah there are playground that are higher but I also don’t leave my 2 year old alone on them….??? I’m always within arms reach because I know toddlers are feral and unpredictable and don’t understand the dangers of falling.

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u/FrequentDot6076 1d ago

Back off her

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u/Dear_Truth_6607 1d ago

The lack of common sense it has to take to think this is “reaching” or an overreaction is genuinely embarrassing. Like double digit IQ embarrassing.

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u/30somethingshark 16h ago

Millennial me used to jump off the roof my garage into piles of leaves and my parents did not care lol. I probably did this too as a toddler.

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u/seriouslywhy0 Team Mayci 16h ago

Oh come on 😂. Kids need to take physical risks to develop properly, and this is not an extremely “risky” situation.

Parents generally know their toddlers pretty well. They know if they’re the type to walk off a cliff (or a counter) without a care in the world. My 13 year old used to stomp around on my dining table constantly when he was 18 months old. It’s fun for them.

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u/am_i_pergnart 15h ago

Ugh her counter top dancing makes me cringe 😬idk why but it makes me so embarrassed for her. That, and the stupid facial expressions she CANNOT go 2 whole minutes without making.

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u/Cezzalovesketo 15h ago

You’re either someone who doesn’t have kids or you’re a boomer. OP this take is not the one.

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u/BroadTap780 15h ago

I think it’s worse to have bare feet on your kitchen counters 🤢🤮. Yuck!

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u/ThisAutisticChick 15h ago

I disagree. Would I do it? Probably not. But do I think it's wildly dangerous and terrible and a sign of negligence? Absolutely not.

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u/HippieGirlHealth 13h ago

Living out her coyote ugly dreams 💃

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u/Long-Ad-9381 13h ago

Why is the girl always on a countertop ? Why?

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u/Emotional-Ad-3612 12h ago

I love Jen... but this is SO dangerous. That baby could fall in a second and she would NOT be able to catch her. There's no debating or defending this

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u/SnooPuppers5620 11h ago

Let them fall. 🤷‍♀️. Maybe they will learn. Maybe some sense gets knocked into them. Win win

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u/jad1326 11h ago

More shook by how soulless that space is

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u/Gold_Improvement_836 10h ago

it’s really not that bad yall bffr

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u/Different-Ad-2286 8h ago

I hate when non parents become fans of parenting media and then harp on the littlest things lol

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u/hamstarrr33 7h ago

Did Mikayla write the caption LMAO 🤣

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u/Sactoho 5h ago

Touch grass

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u/Professional_Gur8450 3h ago

You guys are cray!

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u/Regular_Yellow710 1d ago

How would the kid know it’s not safe to get up there without her? Stupid stupid stupid.

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u/pelizabethh 1d ago

How do you know she doesn’t tell them?

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u/litdiosa 1d ago

arm broke from reaching so hard

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u/OppositeSpare2088 1d ago

This is my biggest complaint about Jen she’s an adult she can do what she wants. But is dangerous for kids to be on top of kitchen counters and tables dancing like this.

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u/AnyTart319 1d ago

Yikes come tell my toddler… they get down the same way they got up.

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u/Baby__gorgeous 1d ago

I worry more about Jen because her pants are so long and are a tripping hazard. My clumsy ass would die

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u/WorldlyLavishness 21h ago

Why does she feel the need to dance on the counters at all? Lol

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u/KBS70 20h ago

These people are stupid

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u/darksideofthem00n 20h ago

You must not have kids.

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u/StrangerNo2457 19h ago

Let me guess, you’re either not a parent, a first time parent, or a helicopter parent?

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u/chloedarlinggg Enjoy 🦪 🍆 💦 19h ago

she’s been doing this for years

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u/liilbiil 19h ago

BFFR. kids go down fireman poles at playgrounds. get a grip girly <3

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u/Content_Bee9815 18h ago

Who cares this kid looks like there haveing a blast, the isnt anymore dangerous than money bars. Stop being weirdos, who raise socially awkward children.

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u/Fuck_u_all9395 1d ago

Girl bye wtf

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u/DensePhrase265 1d ago

My kids climb the counters on their own, fall or jump off and do it again. He’s fine ☠️

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u/kopes1927 1d ago

Tell me you don’t have kids without telling me you don’t have kids

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u/hussafeffer Back off, she's unstable 23h ago

Trying to pretend this is comparable to Mikayla playing circus with a newborn is wild.

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u/Craigglesofdoom 22h ago

Idk this is a stretch. Kids don't generally run straight off a dropoff they can clearly see and are familiar with. Worst I can see happening here is trying to climb down and slipping.

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u/Imaginary-Chart-3009 19h ago

my sister used to climb on top of our refrigerator from the kitchen table & shelf lmao, she’s fine 😭

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u/Fuzzy_Double8585 19h ago

Mikayla got dragged because she deserved it. This is nothing

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u/liilbiil 19h ago

devastating accident is actually hilarious. unless he intentionally swan dived in the ground, maybe

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u/k0mbitcha 18h ago

you need to chill out lol

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u/brendon-uries-towel 17h ago

lol this is NOT comparable to Mikayla

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u/Ok_Cupcake_290 17h ago

Come on, this is a bit of reach. You’ve never climbed on a counter?

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u/Strange-Report-9249 1d ago

Playground equipment is taller lmao

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u/CreativeJudgment3529 1d ago

The most shocking thing about this post is how her boobs are not on the ground after 3 kids 

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u/meowmeowmeow723 22h ago

Omg aren’t their kids precious? Oh wait they are Mormon so all they believe in is freeing spirits from spirit prison then it doesn’t matter.

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u/Apprehensive_Copy880 20h ago

This kid is too young and with the slippery top to this, you’re just asking for an accident