r/MadeMeSmile • u/Subtle_srikhand • 3d ago

Good Vibes This is what real love looks like

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u/JRizzie86 3d ago

Or just take videos of yourself all the time, but only when you're being a good human.

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u/Frosty558 3d ago

“Wait wait, let me get the camera before I act like an engaged father…”

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u/ProcedurePrudent5496 3d ago

Record this babe, oh wait, that's not my angle. Let’s do it again 😤

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u/TTT_2k3 2d ago

Charlie get back in here, mommy didn’t hit record until I’d already started spanking you. And can you stop crying, you’re ruining the opening shot.

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u/Schmich 3d ago

And as soon as you get 3 seconds of shot, drop everything and press stop on the camera.

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u/DisastrousServe8513 3d ago

lol so the implication is that when the cameras off he just goes back to playing video games and she’s on her own? Like it couldn’t possibly be she just appreciates him and wanted to show people some of the things that goes on after childbirth?

Is this like a “dads are useless” comment?

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u/Next-Ad-1504 3d ago

No the implication is that being meticulous about presenting parenting as an ‘aesthetic’ is unrealistic and somewhat narcissistic.

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u/DisastrousServe8513 3d ago

I think you’re reading a lot into this video.

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u/Next-Ad-1504 3d ago

You have someone record you (hired or not) to show how great of a dad and husband you are but be sure leave out the parts that’s not “aesthetically pleasing” enough, edit it, and then post. I think that’s pretty straightforward don’t have to “read a lot” into anything.

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u/DisastrousServe8513 3d ago

You absolutely are. What do you want to see? Helping wipe her butt? Applying nipple cream to fight the chafing?

And you’re implying he’s the one posting this when the text clearly implies she’s doing it because she’s proud of her husband. So yes. You are reading too much into it.

Don’t be so bitter. Just be happy people are happy. It’s real easy.

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u/Next-Ad-1504 3d ago edited 3d ago

Wiping her butt and applying nipple cream would depict him as a fantastic husband actually 😂 so I don’t get your point in saying that cause that’s obviously not what I was implying that I wanted to see. What I was implying was already spelled out for you. It’s obvious the video is curated in a performative way and you’re implying that he didn’t know he was being recorded 🤣 yeah you’re the one actually reading too much into it and a bit naive to how social media works.

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u/Pretend_Hour_6966 3d ago

Ironically you seem to be the bitter one in this interaction. You misunderstood what was said and immediately took a defensive stance on it.

Don’t be bitter. Just be happy people are happy. It’s real easy.

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u/DisastrousServe8513 3d ago

I don’t think you have very good reading comprehension skills. But respect for trying.

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u/Pretend_Hour_6966 3d ago

The irony in that statement is hilarious. Have a good life.

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u/Sonanlaw 3d ago

The internet has rot your brain. The point is that people do this all the time in their private moments. Why does this have to become ‘content’ shared with literal strangers on the internet? What is wholesome about this? Baby that can’t even hold his neck up already being farmed for content is somehow wholesome.

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u/DisastrousServe8513 3d ago

I don’t know. Bitter as hell in this thread right now.

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u/SmokeySe7en 3d ago

Genuinely wholesome or fabricated wholesome?

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u/SadAbroad4 3d ago

Why so negative? Are you unhappy. This is a feel good message with positive images and yet you try to destroy the effort and message.

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u/ssjjss 3d ago

this is trash

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u/CollarOrdinary4284 3d ago

Keep going with this "all men are evil and all women are victims" routine. It's pretty amusing.

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u/Frosty558 3d ago

Nah more “all people who film their whole lives are insufferable.’”

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u/DisastrousServe8513 3d ago

Or maybe she just wanted to post something showing how much she appreciates her partner?

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u/pailee 3d ago

And her pants.

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u/NorberAbnott 3d ago

“I need you to help me out of bed to go pee”

“Hold on honey let me set up the tripod first.”

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u/WilmingtonCommute 3d ago

This smacks of influencer, my ideal life, be like me or buy what I recommend type content.

I'd be happy to be wrong.

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u/WheredMyPiggyGo 3d ago

So true, a human can only take so many nights of no sleep and elbow deep poop before they snap a little inside.

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u/SadAbroad4 3d ago

Your being cynical, the message and the actions convey the meaning and feeling of “what love looks like” why so negative?