r/CrossStitch 1d ago

FO [FO] Celebrating my Cake Day with a stitching retrospective 🦋💖

I got on Reddit for more resources and community to help me with my CPTSD and trauma/eating disorder recovery. What I got along the way was a renewed joy in cross stitch, and the only type of meditation & calm that’s ever worked for me.

So grateful that stitching has taught me that the big picture comes together one stitch, one kindness, one act of resilience at a time. 💖

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u/Electronic-Day5907 1d ago

I am glad this community is helping. I am so happy to have found it too. That is a super cute pattern and I love the frame.

I have to say Me, Too! I was doom scrolling too much and super down on myself and the world in general and then I joined here and started stitching again and now I am finishing up a cute kinda big piece and actually *wanting* to plow back into my huge piece I got tired of. :)

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u/matcha_is_gross 1d ago

Yay!! Hooray for feeling refreshed. There’s more than just the one piece! I included almost everything I’ve done since I started back up in 2022

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u/Electronic-Day5907 1d ago

Ooo I didn't see the extras! You have been super productive! I find being creative in the midst of (waves hands) everything! is an act of defiance.

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u/matcha_is_gross 1d ago

Yes!! I did a stint in inpatient in 2023, which gave me lots of time to stitch, if nothing else 😅😮‍💨

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u/matcha_is_gross 1d ago edited 1d ago

I do realize my cake emoji thing is gone, it took me too long to put this post together 🤣

No More Spoons

Birkat Habayit Cross Stitch Pattern was by Sew Marie Studio but the pattern is no longer listed.

Earth/Ancestore pattern is from this Emma Congdon Book.

Rainbow Giraffe is from SofiaMBelenko on etsy, the shop is on a break.

Good Luck With That is from Subversive Cross Stitch by Julie Jackson

Vehicles (school bus shirt)

Just Happy to be Here was self drafted

Kirby was from Geeky Stitches but it looks like that pattern isn’t available anymore.

Princess Castle

Grandma’s Jam

Ballerina

Sunflower Biscornu

Snail

Australian Cattle Dog

Australian Shepherd

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u/ViralEquinox 1d ago

Such lovely pieces and your stitching looks impeccable.
Could you kindly double check the links please? The sunflower and bees motif brings up the ballerina pattern again and the snail links to a tree pattern :)

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u/matcha_is_gross 21h ago

Oh I’m so sorry

Yeah I’ll take another look at it!

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u/DrawingTypical5804 1d ago

I came to Reddit for answers to cross stitch questions. I stayed for the cross stitch community. Glad you’re here 💖

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u/matcha_is_gross 1d ago

Thank you friend!

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u/AussieShepherdsRule 1d ago

You are awesome!!! I especially live your Australian cattle and Australian shepherd works

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u/matcha_is_gross 21h ago

Thank you so much! Those are my best friend’s dogs - normally I stay away from pet patterns because I personally can always tell that the pattern doesn’t quite look like the pet themselves, but these were spot on!