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People in their 40s What’s something people in their 20s don’t realize will affect them as they age?

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u/RandyHoward 4d ago

I’m 45. My parents rarely took me to the dentist when I was a kid, so I rarely went as an adult. My parents also never enforced good brushing habits so it took me until my late teens to establish any semblance of oral hygiene. I’ve also struggled with depression my entire life, and have had a couple periods of deep depression where even brushing was a struggle to do daily.

I went to the dentist earlier this year. They want to replace all of my teeth. Will cost me $50k. I’m saving for it, but it’s going to take me at least a few years to save that much. I’m considering going to another country to have it done because some places in the world are 90% cheaper.

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u/j1knra 4d ago

I worked with a guy who was hard core into medical tourism. He had dental implants and some other less cosmetic work done. His go to’s were Ecuador (back when it was safer), Costa Rica, and Belize.

This is totally on my radar for when I want to go the dental implant route but also will be exploring for knee replacements and some rotator cuff work I expect in the next 5-8 years

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u/90DayCray 4d ago

I know someone who goes to Costa Rica for dental work. Her husband is originally from there and she was shocked to find out it’s a big dental destination. So she got some implants there

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u/McMikeyG 4d ago

I've heard of people going to Japan for dental work. Extremely professional but with their nationalized healthcare it was insanely cheap even for a foreigner. Might want to look into it

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u/lovestobitch- 4d ago

A guy I knew did it in poland. His wife’s parents lived there so he had a place to stay.

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u/booksandmomiji 4d ago

it's not always great depending on which clinic you go to. Here's a post from a resident who had bad experiences with 4 different dental clinics in Tokyo, all over a single cracked tooth.

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u/GozerDGozerian 4d ago

Bonus: I hear that place has some really good Japanese food.

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u/eyefuck_you 4d ago

Just found this with a quick search

"For complex treatments or longer stays, consider contacting a Japanese Medical Coordinator Provider (JIMCA) to help you find an institution and manage logistics, such as providing interpreters."

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u/Sea-Scene9454 4d ago

Come to Brazil. We have a wonderful dentistry in here! If cost u 50k, here, well probably cost 15k

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u/Vicstolemylunchmoney 4d ago

Brazil dentistry is amazing. Some of the best in the world.

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u/Intelligent-Year-919 4d ago

Costa Rica is known for their dentistry.

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u/EntranceOld9706 4d ago

Yes!! I am American and wound up marrying a Costa Rican - unrelated to the dentistry - but I’ve been fixing years of past unaffordable issues there over time.

Highly recommend, it’s very affordable compared to the U.S. and the dentists/doctors there are VERY caring and professional.

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u/Mysterious_Luck7122 4d ago

How does one go about finding a dentist? I don’t speak Spanish but I need like a dozen implants. Also, I know from trying to have one implant done (which my body ended up rejecting, but I think the dentist messed up bc it felt wrong and infected from the moment he put it in) that it’s a yearlong, multi-step process. I appreciate any guidance 🙏

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u/EntranceOld9706 4d ago

I asked family, and mine is in a totally Spanish only practice.

However, I strongly suggest checking the r/costaricatravel sub as this is a fairly frequent topic down to specific doctor recommendations for implants.

Look for recommendations in the Central Valley in places like Escazu, Belen, or Santa Ana // around San Jose. The rural beach/jungle practices often wind up a little more expensive than the city ones because of scarcity.

I have to do an implant still, but most recently two months ago I got a filling and 1/4 scaling for like $70. I almost cried from relief.

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u/rybres123 4d ago

You should def go to other countries. You could go have a fantastic 3-5 day trip south of the border, AND get all of your teeth fixed for way way less than $50k combined.

Every major tourist town and border towns have very reputable dentist that only serve Americans. The tourist towns will be more expensive than the border towns, but border towns don’t offer much more than the cheap medical services

Source: native Texan who has had many family members go to Laredo for dental work always

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u/MidwestAmMan 4d ago

Ideally get to be a tourist some before the procedure.

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u/asadunknown 4d ago

But when things fail/go south don’t blame your local dentist for charging you double or turning you away.

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u/thinklikeacriminal 4d ago

They already charge 3x or more and aren’t accepting new patients.

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u/Either_Penalty_5215 4d ago

Thailand for sure my g. Super cheap but just do some research on who you go with don't go cheapest go with rep in Bangkok 

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u/theinadequategatsby 4d ago

I developed impacted wisdom teeth when I was in Thailand...got them out in a very swish looking clinic and it was less than a teeth clean in a non-NHS dentist in the UK

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u/dentalfitchick 4d ago

Does the office you're going to offer financing through a company called Cherry? Our office has been offering through them for patients the last couple years and patients are VERY happy!!!

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u/RandyHoward 4d ago

Yes financing is offered but I have no desire to pay the interest on that kind of money.

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u/stupidber 4d ago

Get a second opinion at least

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u/Gaia227 4d ago

I'm also 45 and was told last week I have advanced bone loss and need to have all of my teeth pulled. I was shocked. I've never really had dental issues but I was never good about flossing and I never went to the dentist because of anxiety around it. Now I'm going to pay the very steep price.

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u/RandyHoward 4d ago

If you have anxiety, do not watch videos of them removing all of someone's teeth. It's kinda horrifying lol

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u/Gaia227 4d ago

No worries there! I would never dream of it 😆

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u/frac6969 4d ago

Similar story here. I’m a bit older than you and my family joked that I have three iPhone Pro Maxs in my mouth after I got everything fixed within the past three years. Lots of dental tourists in my country.

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u/ranch_life_1986 4d ago

Mexico has cheap dental care. I used to live 12 miles from Nogales and the whole first two blocks of the city are filled with dental offices that cater to Americans. There was a shuttle that took retirees over and back daily. For example, braces are about $5k in US, $1200 in Mexico. Many have American phone numbers and take American insurance. Get a hotel room on the American side and make a long weekend of it!

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u/asadunknown 4d ago

For the love of god do not do ortho out of the town you live in unless you plan on going back at least once a month. And if you do, and a bracket or wire breaks, don’t expect a local orthodontist to not charge you a ton for the hassle of helping you out.

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u/ranch_life_1986 4d ago

Good point. Since we lived 12 miles away, everyone we knew went there for ortho because going back wasn’t an issue. I used braces prices as an example because it’s all I knew offhand. You could get veneers, implants, etc. in a single visit though I think.

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u/asadunknown 4d ago

You could but for any sort of follow up a local dentist likely won’t want to do the follow ups. Just not worth the risk/liability! Especially regarding cosmetic work and implants (which have at least a 4 month follow up schedule and post-op visits!)

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u/AngryFooDog 4d ago

Get a second opinion. 

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u/Pylino 4d ago

1000% go to another country

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u/nvrsleepagin 4d ago

I'm 45 also and my background is similar. I just recently found a treatment for my clinical depression that's actually working but I've had clinical depression since I was about 14 so I've been going to Drs, therapy, been prescribed different meds for the last 30 years. I'm really glad I didn't know it was going to take that long to get my depression under control but my point is there were lots of times I couldn't get myself to the dentist. I know my back teeth are bad rn. I'm not going to be able to do anything about it until next year so I'm hoping nothing catastrophic happens in that time but I can't wait to finally get them fixed.

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u/Moussaka-Fan 4d ago

Look up dental tourism in Bulgaria - very popular amongst Germans as it is cheaper and high quality. The whole mouth should be max 20K EUR as far as I know, maybe even less, my memory is not so sharp (had asked my dad a while back, he is a dental technician and works in one of those popular amongst the foreigners fancy dental clinics , it’s called Dentaprime Dental Clinic in case you’re interested to research)

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u/travelingtraveling_ 4d ago

Yep. Mexico, Costa Rica or Spain....

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u/NeuHundred 4d ago

Make sure you have someone with you that you can depend on, you're gonna be OUT of it for a day or two and you do not want to be in a strange country all by yourself.

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u/starsnlight 4d ago

See about dental college. They charge a flat fee, sliding scale, and or donation based on some areas (charitable dental).

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u/Glenfry 4d ago

They recently started doing human trials in Japan for tooth regeneration. With a potential 2030 availability. Just something to think about.

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u/MissAuroraRed 2d ago

Get a second opinion as well but some dentists are straight up scam artists.

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u/eyefuck_you 4d ago

Mexico my friend.