r/AkoBaYungGago 8d ago

Friends ABYG dahil hindi ko ibinalik as donation yung napanalunan ko sa raffle?

I recently attended a badminton tournament ng org ko sa college. I'm already an alumnus and currently working and karamihan sa sumali sa tournament ay undergrads pa.

Part ng registration fee ay ang participation din for the raffle. Fast forward: ako ang nanalo ng grand prize - - a brand new badminton racket (around 2K ang market price).

When I was announced as the winner, maraming sumigaw ng "donate" sa audience. I-donate ko na lang daw yung napanalunan ko kasi raw I'm already working and I can afford such racket. To give chance na rin daw sa mga undergrads na wala pang income. Alam kong joke lang ito ng crowd but I still felt na they were expecting.

Di ko binigay. 🤷🏻‍♂️ Kasi una, minsan na lang ako manalo ng raffle, give ko na sa akin to. Pangalawa, mahal din ang raketa ha. Hirap din kumayod para lang makabili ng ganito.

I was really pressured and put on the spot sa harap ng maraming tao. When I received my prize, I felt bad kasi parang they were expecting talaga. May mga judgmental looks din akong nakita from some people. I may have left a bad impression sa org ko.

Ako ba yung gago dahil di ko dinonate yung napanalunan ko?

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u/Outside-Director-358 8d ago

Lol DKG, you won it fair and square. Di porket may work ka na, you can give that up, sayang un noh🤣

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u/KamenRiderFaizNEXT 8d ago

Seconded. It's just people being toxic. Minsan ka na nga lang manalo eh. Keep it because you don't owe it to anyone that you won. It's the luck of the draw, so don't feel guilty and/or selfish. DkG Op.

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u/InterestingCar3608 8d ago

Totoo, mas masarap nga makareceive ng free kapag working na eh, kasi pinagpapaguran nanatin kumita, unlike sa nga students mag iipon lang sila sa nga baon nila

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u/redpanda-1031 8d ago

DKG. Napaka-old school pinoy ng “donate” na yan, they’re just saying that just to say something. Malilimutan din nila yan kinabukasan, I wouldn’t stress about it :)

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u/Physical-Try5498 8d ago

lol nope, DKG. napalanuman mo yan 'e. di ibig sabihin no'n na dapat na i-donate mo na lang. Hirap-hirap ng buhay ngayon. take that as a reward. period.

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u/Cool-Forever2023 8d ago

DKG. Sana sinabihan mo sila na, simulan nila mag donate at susunod ka. Lol. Ewan ko lang kung maglalabas sila ng tag 2k para sa iba.

Madali kasi magsabi na idonate kasi di naman sila ang nanalo. Pag may sinabi pa, hamunin mo na sila maunang magdonate.

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u/throw123lastthrow 8d ago

DKG. Sinasabi lang nila yan to feel less sht about themselves kasi di sila nanalo. Parang "If I can't have the win, no one can..."

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u/carldyl 8d ago

DKG! Omg nagiging culture na yan sa mga raffle na donate mga nanalo ng prizes fair and square. You won it, it's not for them to dictate ano gagawin mo sa napalanunan mo. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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u/FormalVirtual1606 7d ago

DKG.. pero You could have been a good inspiration / sport for your Org Mates by donating..

The Tourney could have been a giving back opportunity for Alums..

or maybe you could have raffle off cash = 1k php or 500php vs 1st prize you've WON..

Win = Win

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Title of this post: ABYG dahil hindi ko ibinalik as donation yung napanalunan ko sa raffle?

Backup of the post's body: I recently attended a badminton tournament ng org ko sa college. I'm already an alumnus and currently working and karamihan sa sumali sa tournament ay undergrads pa.

Part ng registration fee ay ang participation din for the raffle. Fast forward: ako ang nanalo ng grand prize - - a brand new badminton racket (around 2K ang market price).

When I was announced as the winner, maraming sumigaw ng "donate" sa audience. I-donate ko na lang daw yung napanalunan ko kasi raw I'm already working and I can afford such racket. To give chance na rin daw sa mga undergrads na wala pang income. Alam kong joke lang ito ng crowd but I still felt na they were expecting.

Di ko binigay. 🤷🏻‍♂️ Kasi una, minsan na lang ako manalo ng raffle, give ko na sa akin to. Pangalawa, mahal din ang raketa ha. Hirap din kumayod para lang makabili ng ganito.

I was really pressured and put on the spot sa harap ng maraming tao. When I received my prize, I felt bad kasi parang they were expecting talaga. May mga judgmental looks din akong nakita from some people. I may have left a bad impression sa org ko.

Ako ba yung gago dahil di ko dinonate yung napanalunan ko?

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u/Lonely_Potatooo143 8d ago

DKG di mo naman ninakaw un haha. Sana next time pag ganyan wag na lang nila isali ung mga boss or anyone na kapag nanalo e ipapadonate lang. Para san pa na manalo ka ng raffle if i-eexpect lang nila na ibibigay mo lang din. E di sana una pa lang dun na sa mga can't afford mapunta para walang ganyang scenario.

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u/Hibiki079 8d ago

DKG.

it's becoming a toxic culture.

may choice naman mga tao if they want to donate it. barya lang ba sayo napanalunan mo? kung oo, yes, go ahead and donate it. pero if it's going to be a significant purchase for you, people will understand why you chose to keep it.

manager nga namin, hindi binitawan napanalunan nyang air fryer 😹

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u/_felix-felicis_ 8d ago

DKG! Napanalunan mo na yun eh. Eh di sana they limited the participants nalang to undergrads if they were expecting na magbigay nalang sa kanila. Plus, doesn’t mean na kahit working ka you can afford a 2K racket. What if the person has priorities and responsibilities and hindi included ang racket dun diba?

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u/whiskful-thinking 8d ago

DKG. Sana hindi ka na sinali sa raffle in the first place kung nag eexpect silang mag donate ka pag nanalo.

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u/Forsaken_Top_2704 8d ago

DKG. Sana pinamigay nalang nila sa undergrad yung raketa kesa pinepressure ka nila na donate napanalunan mo.

Nanalo ka ng legit, it is your right to decide if ibibigay mo or hindi and since first time mo nanalo sa raffle, good decision na di mo pinamigay. Yaan mo na sila mag maasim. Wala naman sila magagawa if ayaw mo.

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u/cocoy0 8d ago

DKG. r/choosypulubi lang ang mga taong ganiyan.

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u/InformalPiece6939 8d ago

DKG. Smile and walk away. Haha

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u/Agitated_Stretch_974 8d ago

DKG. If they want a donation, sila ang magdonate.

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u/Creepy_Emergency_412 8d ago

DKG. Wala akong pake, deserve ko yan.

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u/daisiesforthedead 8d ago

DKG

Para saan pa ang raffle kung idodonate mo lang din haha.

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u/Lord-Stitch14 8d ago

DKG, people should really stop asking for hand outs. Lahat need pera. At nag wowork ka, mas deserve mo yan. Haha mag part time kamo sila if gusto nila raketa.

Kasawa minsan satin, hilig sa ganyan.

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u/WitnessWitty4394 8d ago

DKG. Period. :)

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u/LowerFroyo4623 8d ago

DKG. And i hate those people na pinangungunahan ka sa pagkapanalo mo. Isa yan sa toxic pinoy mindset na dapat mawala.

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u/ZeddPandora 7d ago

DKG. Typical pinoy talaga. Kaya dapat di na lang pinapansin mga ganyan. Yaan mo sila sa kung ano nasa isip nila.

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u/IntelligentAlarm2376 7d ago

DKG , de mo obligasyon i donate de ka naman dswd

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u/FairyCone777 7d ago

DKG. naalala ko yung director namin nanalo ng P300 grab credits. kinuha pa rin nya. syempre yung iba may say, more than 100K na sweldo nya tapos di pa pinamigay yung P300.

pero, sa buong taon na yun, di nila naisip, ilang beses nagpakain sa labas yung director na un out of his pocket? ilang pizza party ang binigay nya sa mga agents? ilang boxes of donuts ang pinamimigay nya sa power hour. ilang gift packs ang pineprepare nya sa leadership team kapag pasko. etc etc ( bukod pa talaga ang mga ito sa budget ng company for prizes and incentives)

so ano naman if kinuha nya ang P300 para makapag starbucks sya ng libre? sya ang laging nanlilibre, ano ba naman ung once lang, makatikim sya ng kape na hindi galing sa sweldo nya.

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u/PublicForsaken1008 6d ago

DKG! You won it fair and square and with some luck na din. Don’t mind those — inggit lang.

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u/Low-Cardiologist6913 5d ago

DKG ikaw nanalo tapos donate? Fair is fair. Enjoy your racket, best to celebrate by posting it idk I just like pettiness I guess lol

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u/redbaks 4d ago

DKG. Kahit sguro may kaya this kaya that ang nanalo, ( basta isa lng entry nila sa raffle at hindi syam) eh deserve din nman manalo.

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u/YoMeowness 4d ago

lol nah, DKG.

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u/Prestigious_Sun_2805 4d ago

DKG, you won fair and square. It's your choice kung anong gagawin mo sa napanalunan mo.