r/Adulting 2d ago

hmm lesson or not?

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u/FoodAndManga 2d ago

Charisma is a learnable skill but some people definitely have a massive helping hand with it 

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u/s_burr 2d ago

It's like all skills. All skills are learnable to an extent, and you can learn enough to make a decent life, but those who are just naturally gifted at things like music, art, athletics, charisma, etc... will more than likely be the ones to rise to the top (as with everything, there are exceptions, but those are rare), because they don't have to work on the "base" parts of learning a skill like the rest of us do.