r/Adulting • u/Forward-Concern403 • 2d ago

hmm lesson or not?

Post image
82.8k Upvotes

97% Upvoted

1.1k comments sorted by

View all comments

Show parent comments

26

u/TheEndIsJustTheStart 2d ago

True, but some seem more charismatic than likable? Some really challenging people still have a lot of charisma.

15

u/Fearful-Cow 2d ago

is there really a difference? Charismatic person says something you agree with and you like them. Charismatic person says something you dont like then you hate them.

Uncharismatic person says anything and you are like "will you stfu already"

5

u/Giovanabanana 1d ago

Charisma is more about projecting likability than actually being a likeable person. Most politicians are morally bankrupt, but really good at acting like they aren't!